[larissa331]

Ok, so my temps dropped quite a bit yesterday and a little today. AF isn't due for another 3 days. Does this mean that she is on her way?

I am so sad right now. When I saw my temp this morning I almost started crying. I know this is the first month charting, but it is the 8 month trying. We bd every other day and on the day of ovulation. We also used OPK's and preseed this month. I really thought this would be the month. I know we haven't hit the one year mark yet, but my daughter is 3 1/2 and I don't want the age gap to keep getting bigger!

It's getting to the point where I can't see pregnant women and not cry. I didn't think I would ever want this so bad. It also hurts when I see people's post that say" oops..I had a one night stand and now I'm pregnant" WHAT?? Are you kidding me? Here we are trying so hard with our loving husbands or SO and we come up empty every month.

Sorry to go on for so long. It really is too early to be ranting, but I'm so bummed. Thanks for taking the time to read this.

-Larissa

[karag]

I am there with ya girlie!

My son is 4 in September and all I want is for him to have a sibling closer to his age.

There is another post on trying to conceive that is similar to yours about seeing other woman who are pregnant. We all feel your pain.

I wouldn't get too down until the AF comes.. You just never know.
Did it take a long time for you to conceive your first?

For me.. my daughter was not planned. Then with my son.. we tried for almost a year!
This go round we are heading on 5 months now!

Hang in there... we are all here for you!

Oh.. where bouts Missouri are you from.. I'm from Kansas!

Kara

[larissa331]

Thanks Kara! I guess I will just wait and see what happens.

We didn't have any trouble with dd. In fact we were preventing from pregnancy, we had just gotten married. We still aren't quite sure how she got here, but we are so glad we have her. So naturally we thought we wouldn't have any trouble conceiving, but here we are eight months down the road. At least we know it can happen and that does give me hope.

We live in Kirksville,MO. We just moved here in August. We are orignally from Indiana. Coming from Indianapolis to small town Missouri has been a big change!

Thanks again for your encourgaging words. This is the first time I have really gotten down about this whole experience. I know it will come in God's time.

[TeresaSuperMama]

((Hugs)) I hope your temp shoots right back up tomorrow for you.

Teresa

[karag]

I hear you.. at 18.. my ex husband and I had intercourse one time that month and conceived.... Then with my current husband we did it right, got married.. married for 2 years.. started trying.. then finally conceived... You are right.. we know it can happen but it's hard.. the waiting and trying can be so frustrating.

You are right... everything happens for a reason!
When it is our time.. we will get our BFP's!

I grew up here in Lawrence.. It is a pretty small town..(kinda) College town.. Kansas University so when students are here it's busy!
NEver been to Kirksville..


I hope your temp goes back up tomorrow!

Kara

Hang in there hun my DD will be 6 in June. I wanted them no more then 4 yrs apart which didnt happen. I hope your temps go up tomorrow hun and AF doesnt show.