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June 4th, 2007, 08:37 AM
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I keep looking through the chart gallery on ff and can't find anything that looks like my chart. That second temp spike is so odd. I mean, if today's temp was way lower, I would have discarded it because it's so high, but then today, it was almost the same temp. What's the deal! lol! I would feel better if I at least found one chart that had this weirdness!
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June 4th, 2007, 08:41 AM
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DANIELLE QUIT STRESSIN GIRL!!!! You're only 5DPO and so much can change during the 2WW. You're going to drive yourself crazy. You'll be jumping out of a window by 9DPO! Hehe!!! Try to keep yourself busy. That's what I had to do last cycle b/c I was overanalyzing EVERYTHING. It was coocoo! *hugs* Go watch a movie!
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June 4th, 2007, 08:45 AM
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DANIELLE QUIT STRESSIN GIRL!!!! You're only 5DPO and so much can change during the 2WW. You're going to drive yourself crazy. You'll be jumping out of a window by 9DPO! Hehe!!! Try to keep yourself busy. That's what I had to do last cycle b/c I was overanalyzing EVERYTHING. It was coocoo! *hugs* Go watch a movie![/b]
Lol! I am gonna go make ds some lunch and try to get a life so I can stop thinking about this so much haha! I am probably driving everyone nuts, including myself haha! I swore to myself I wouldn't get sucked into the obsessing this month, but, it happened. Now, I just have to make it stop haha!
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June 4th, 2007, 08:52 AM
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O my! Although I have to admit, I was looking through the chart gallery earlier.... and you know what, they're ALL DIFFERENT!! It's crazy! I was looking at how many people had temp drops before getting a BFP... I think what makes us so bonkers is that there isn't any standard criteria to compare!! Just sit and wait. UGH.

Then I was thinking about how many people have gotten early positives... that didn't stick and that depresses me even more! I need more work to do...
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June 4th, 2007, 09:06 AM
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DOn't drive yourself crazy. After you have a few cycles under your belt (after the BFP you get this time of course...lol) you will see your normal pattern emerge. It may be normal for you to have a secondary spike like that. Hopefully, you don't have to find out for another 11-18 months though
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June 4th, 2007, 09:09 AM
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DOn't drive yourself crazy. After you have a few cycles under your belt (after the BFP you get this time of course...lol) you will see your normal pattern emerge. It may be normal for you to have a secondary spike like that. Hopefully, you don't have to find out for another 11-18 months though [/b]
Haha, yea, hopefully I wont have to find out! I'm gonna try not to be obsessive about it anymore cause it gets me nowhere but wastes my time and drives me CRAZY.
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June 4th, 2007, 09:11 AM
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You need to calm down, girl! Are you worried about that temp dip on 3DPO?
I don't think it's that uncommon... just look at my chart... I dipped 2 days in a row right after O.
And then a HUGE dip later (which i'm still hoping was implantation! LOL)

I know it's crazy to say this... but relax! You've still got awhile! Hang in there though!
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June 4th, 2007, 10:05 AM
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I said I wasn't going to obsess last cycle and I did it anyway too so I totally understand. The more I kept myself busy though, the less I thought about it! GL keeping sane!
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June 4th, 2007, 10:09 AM
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You need to calm down, girl! Are you worried about that temp dip on 3DPO?
I don't think it's that uncommon... just look at my chart... I dipped 2 days in a row right after O.
And then a HUGE dip later (which i'm still hoping was implantation! LOL)

I know it's crazy to say this... but relax! You've still got awhile! Hang in there though![/b]
Not really.... I know that you can have little ups and downs. I just didn't understand why I had a huge jump after O and a huge jump a few days later. I am trying to relax lol.....I go to school online so it's hard to break away from the computer which is really what I want to do. I want to be doing my cross-stitch, but I can't. I feel like an old woman! lol!
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June 4th, 2007, 11:06 AM
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I still think you just ovulated hun, I know you dont want to hear it and dont believe me but that is my 2 cents hun!
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June 4th, 2007, 11:12 AM
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I still think you just ovulated hun, I know you dont want to hear it and dont believe me but that is my 2 cents hun![/b]
It's not that I don't wanna hear it, it's that my cervical position and cm were not AT ALL fertile the past few days, so that wouldn't make any sense. Plus, why would I have had that first increase and then 3 steady temps after and not have o'd before the first increase? I'm not just denying it because I don't want it to be the case, I just can't believe that the only sign would be a temp spike and my cervix is firmer than firm can be and not nearly as wet as it was days ago. There is a VERY noticeable difference now than when I have it marked as SHOW on my chart.

Does anyone else think that I o'd at the second rise?
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June 4th, 2007, 12:15 PM
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I am just stating my 2 cents, you know your body more then I know your body so best thing is wait it out hun!
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June 4th, 2007, 12:19 PM
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I am just stating my 2 cents, you know your body more then I know your body so best thing is wait it out hun![/b]
I know I appreciate the response anyway I hate waiting!!! I know that's all I can do, but I hate it so bad!
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June 4th, 2007, 03:02 PM
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I think it is possible to have O'd at the second rise. FF may take away or move you CH if tomorrows temp is that high again. CP is the least reliable indicator of ovulation.
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June 4th, 2007, 06:41 PM
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I think it is possible to have O'd at the second rise. FF may take away or move you CH if tomorrows temp is that high again. CP is the least reliable indicator of ovulation.[/b]
I tried experimenting and adding temps around the same spot they are at now for the next 5 days and ff didn't move my crosshairs. I haven't had any fertile cm in days, so that is probably why. I know I didn't just O. I just know my body too well and I know that cm and temps are both important at predicting O.
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