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Ok girls, I'm getting really discouraged here. Take a look at my chart overlay. I knew it. I started my little decline today, matches perfectly with last month. I broke down and tested today...BFN....and I know that 9DPO is early, but I used an Answer Early test, they say they are supposed to be able to detect up to 4 days before your missed period, and considering I should probably start my spotting tomorrow...I thought maybe just maybe.....but it just kinda solidified my feelings that I just don't have any hope this cycle. I haven't "felt" it...I just kinda know...I'm really really crampy today too....last cycle I did start some spotting on 9DPO...so that could be today...
I just want to cry....seriously....how is it possible that I got pregnant with DD so fast, got pregnant right away this last time...but now even with perfectly timed BD...for 2 cycles now...nothing? Is there something wrong with me now since the m/c???? I really don't want to have to go to the doctor for outside help. I was so hoping to just do this on my own again. I don't think it's anything wrong with DH..considering like I said, that we got pregnant right away in January.....the only difference between then and now is the m/c and my body....
I know I shouldn't give up hope till the witch shows her face, but I have a feeling that will be soon...
I just want to be pregnant again more than anything!! I keep feeling like DH and I weren't excited enough when we first found out...we were more surprised that it happened so fast again, more than anything. But we were both so excited about having another baby,and then having that ripped away from us....and now? To have problems getting pregnant again?? I mean look at this cycle? We only missed one day around O of BDing...[/b]
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I'm so sorry hun! It isn't over yet, but I know how you feel not being hopeful anymore. In a way I am there right now too because my temp looks like it may be ready to drop, it went down more today.
You are Oing hun, that's a good thing. Do you have a lot of fertile cm during your cycle? I know that that can throw things out of wack and make it harder. Maybe try some of the at-home treatments to increase your fertility. There are herbs and stuff I know that some girls take. I'm so sorry you are having a hard time now. They say it's normal for it to take up to a year to conceive with the average couple. Maybe it just so happens that this time is taking longer.
I know you are feeling very upset, but try not to be too discouraged, it'll happen! I hope it happens soon! I always say there is a reason for everything, maybe there is a reason that it's taking longer. I know nothing anyone can say will really make you feel better right now, but we're all here for you!
I hope that your temp. surprises you with a rise tomorrow instead of a decline!!!!!
Here is a chart I found on ff.....maybe it'll help you not feel so discouraged:
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/ChartGallery/45869.html
see....it's similar to yours. Don't give up yet!
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I totally understand what you're saying tho. With DD I was pg after 2 cycles, with DS by the end of cycle #1 I was pg. Here I am on cycle #3 and starting to feel hopeless. Each cycle I try something new and different to makes my chances higher. I get excited about it. I hope you get your BFP in a couple of days and you can stop with this doubtfulness! 
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