I am new to this site. So anyway..here we are.
I think you actually may have O'd on CD 43...hoping your temps stay up for the next couple of days. What was your CM before CD43? I got off of BCP's when I was ttc#1 in Jun 2003, didn't have a/f until Dec 2003. It took awhile. I have really weird cycles. I did end up getting pg Aug 2004. You should check out my chart. I'm thinking I didn't O on CD19 like FF said I did. I think I O'd on CD21.
I do know that your body is def trying to O but like I said. I think you might have on CD43. I would also recommend looking at my chart Aug 2004. It is crazy. There is no way that I O'd back when FF said I did.
I really do think you are O'ing. Just late. Pay attention to your CM, I would say buy OPK's. But I don't know if they work for someone like us. I mean our bodies are trying to O. They get the surge. They just don't for one reason or another.
This is what I'm going to do next cyle. I bought a fertility monitor, the month I got pg. I've been using that for the last 2 months. I have missing temps because I just had surgery in May. So I've been taking pain killers and laying on a heating pad. Anyway, I'm going to continue to use the FM but if my temp starts dropping again like it did this cycle. Im going to use an OPK, see if I get another +. I'm sorry that you have such confusing, long cycles. I truly do know what you are going thru...
here is my chart...I haven't done a home page or anything...
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/531c0