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I think I am out. Another bfn today. I changed my chart though, to the FAM, so that only puts me at 9 dpo. I guess there is still a chance. My last cycle was 31 days so if my cycle is 31 days again this interpretation makes perfect sense. I would have a perfect 14 day luteal phase. So I don't know, I guess I could still have a chance. I am just feeling discouraged.[/b]
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You totally have a chance!!!! I got the feeling you were a little annoyed at me earlier for insisting that CD14 was wrong, but I was only hoping to spare you all this anxiety from testing too early and the discouragement that comes from seeing so many BFN's. I could be imagining things too. Hang in there - you still have a BIG shot at seeing your BFP this cycle!
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It's okay. I know you are really bright and know about the subject. Its just that I tend to weigh opks in over charting. My opk was the most positive on Sunday. I assumed my peak started on Sunday since Sunday morning and Sunday afternoon my opk was blaring positive. On Monday they were the same color but not really darker. I think my opk was most positive on Sunday and day 17 seems so far away from when I received my positive opk. I have read a whole lot on charting myself so I do know a little. I have several books at home to reference. I already knew my chart wasn't following the pattern it should but I guess I just wanted to believe that day 14 was right. I think sometimes when you are ttc you get emotionally attached to a certain date and it is hard to let go of it.
I am really open minded and I think I generally handle criticism well. I can admit when I am wrong. I don't get annoyed with you saying how you feel. I love the charting board and love getting everyone's opinions. Please don't feel like I am annoyed. Maybe sensitive, but not annoyed. I like your opinions. I think I have told you that before. I come over to the NFP board mostly to get your take on things. I appreciate all your help with figuring out my chart. Even though I have read tons on the subject I haven't actually charted my own cycle very long so I love all the feedback. I wish I could give you more cm information but I just didn't notice a lot of cm this month.
The one thing that is making me slightly optimistic is that I have been getting terrible headaches and I always get really bad migraines when I am pregnant. I am trying to not give up but at the same time I like to brace myself for the worst.