Somesitmes I hate charting. Like right now, when my ticker is telling me I am 19 DPO and I am like 90% sure I did not ovulate then and get pregnant. When I have seen no clear thermal shift, no proper CM dryup, etc in the 4 months I have been charting..it just makes me pissed off. I hate waiting on freaking AF with irregular cycles, esp. with no thermal shift that has been seen. AF was due anywhere between a week ago and a week from today, and I am just sick of this. I wish my doctor would take me seriously and believe in charting, but NOooooo.....gah!

It's been a bad few weeks, can ya tell?

[HannahBanana]

Ack! I'm so sorry that your doctor isn't taking charting seriously. Your frustrations are completely valid. I wish I knew what to say, but I don't, so I'm just giving you all of my support! PM me if you need anything.

thanks! I jsut needed to get it out...I think. lol.

[sjkduke]

I know it's so frustrating! You're in the "2ww" and it's not even a 2ww for you--no excitement!

Hope you get AF soon....have you thought about switching doctors? Or are you able to?

No, I have no choice as to who my GYN is. There are two GYN's here but it doesn't matter who my appointment is with, I just get to see the next available. And while my Primary Physician is amazing.....he's a close family friend and I don't really want to talk about the intimate details of my sex life and reproductive capabilities with him. I can handle him knowing everything else, but I wouldn't be able to look him in the eye if I had him be my GYN also.

The good news is my longest cycle since July has been 34 days, so hopefully by this weekend AF will be here and so will my OPK's and I can start fresh.

[ShannonMVT]

Sorry this cycle was such a wash for you.

I hope the next one is better!

thanks ladies!

[lucidity03]

I'm sorry it's so frustrating.

You've replied to me in my threads venting about weird/long cycles so I think we're in a similar boat.

I did call my dr. and have an appt. this Friday. I'm afraid they won't take me seriously and I'll be in this never-ending loop of super-long cycles. It would be nice if you could consult with someone who at least believes in charting!

I can't believe that ff gave you CH. I hope you do get AF and start fresh and maybe something will work out. (Or, I hope that you find yourself pg. by some miracle!)

I really hope things work out for you soon.

thanks girl! We are in very similar boats. I've got to wait until the first of the year unfortunately...