[eatripp1025]

Hi everyone! My name is Liz and I'm new to justmommies.com! My husband and I are trying for our third child and was just wondering if anyone knew how to time it perfectly! My cycles are usually 31 days and as of today I am on my 13th day of my cycle. My husband works third and I go to school during the day so we are trying our best to make sure we have sex every other day. Well yesterday morning we had sex and then yesterday after noon I started having cramps like you do when you ovulate or are going to start your period. Had the same thing this morning and then this afternoon I started to have a little bit of discharge(the kind you have when you ovulate). Does anyone know if that means I'm ovulating and if it was good timing?? I am just confused since today is the 13th day of my usually 31 day cycle. Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks and baby dust to all!!!

[kruff79]

Check out the Fertility Charting thread, I just started charting last month and the girls there have a lot of info to share. As far a Oing that changes month to month so if you start charting you can get a very good idea of when to BD. Most of us use Fertility Friend, its an online site that you plug your info into and it charts for you, the basic service is free. Hope it helps.

[eatripp1025]

Thanks for your help..I will check it out

[Crunchymommy]

Good luck!

[JENSTER]

HELLO THERE.

I AM ALSO NEW TO THIS SITE.THIS IS MY FIRST ENTRY AND I AM NOT EVEN SURE IF I AM DOING THIS RIGHT !!! TE HE.
I AM 33 AND ME AND MY PARTNER ARE ALSO TRYING FOR OUR 3RD BABY.THIS IS ONLY MY 2ND MONTH OF A BFN (BIG FAT NEGATIVE) BUT WITH MY OTHER 2 CHILDREN I CONCIEVED STRAIGHT AWAY.

I TO THOUGHT I WAS OVULATING AS HAD THAT STICKY DISCHARGE AND WHAT I THOUGHT WERE OVULATION PAINS SO WE TRIED OVER 5 STRAIGHT DAYS AND I THOUGH WE ARE BOUND TO OF HAD SOME LUCK BUT NOTHING AT ALL.

I DID ONE OF THOSE FIRST RESPONSE TEST AND THOUGH OH MY GOSH WHAT A WASTE OF £10 BUT I AM SURE IF IT HAD SHOWED UP POSITIVE I WOULD OF THOUGH IT WAS THE BEST £10 SPENT EVER !!! LOL.

I HAVE BEEN TOLD THAT YOU CAN ACTUALLY OVULATE ANY TIME BETWEEN 11-16 DAYS !!I HAVE ALSO READ ON A WEBSITE THAT YOU SHOULD TRY HAVING SEX TWICE A WEEK WHEN TRYING TO CONCIEVE.I AM NOT SURE IF THIS IS TRUE BUT I AM GOING TO GIVE IT A GO ON A MONDAY AND A FRIDAY !!!LOL.

I HAVE JUST BROUGHT AN OVULATION KIT BUT IT WAS REALLY CHEAP SO AM NOT SURE IF IT WILL WORK BUT I WILL KEEP YOU INFORMED.

I WISH YOU AND EVERY ONE A LOT OF LUCK.COME ON GIRLS WE CAN DO IT x x