Hello! And welcome to JM!
I am new here too, and am finding that all the friendship and support is WONDERFUL! I'd enourage you to poke around and see what others are up to!!
Well I am TTC number 2 and am going on 6mos!

but I do have a 13month old daughter so I have been through this before! There are a lot of helpful suggestions out there, but if you are getting impatient I would try the OPK's...they frusterated me but I have heard RAVE revews about them and they seem to work for others....
I also haven't temped either....but it is getting to that point for me!! LOL! I hope that you get your POS TEST SOON!!
Best of luck and BABY DUST TO YOU!