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April 25th, 2008, 07:51 AM
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Hello, I'm Mary. I just had my third miscarriage on Tuesday. I'm having a horrible time dealing with this one. We were so sure everything would be fine since my last pregnancy produced a healthy baby. The doctors said that there had to have been something genetically wrong with the baby, but I just can't understand it. The first two pregnancies ended due to blood clotting problems. I just don't understand why we have to go through so much
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April 25th, 2008, 08:10 AM
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I'm so sorry for your losses. A sad welcome to our board, but with open arms. I think the thing that frustrates me most about loss is the ambiguity of "why" when you so desperately want/need an answer. We've all been through that, which is one of the things I love about this board. The ladies here truly understand the frustration and heartache that come with recurrent loss.

This is a good place for support, venting, crying, and even laughing (maybe not now, but eventually). I hope you'll stick around and get to know us. We'd love to get to know you!
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April 25th, 2008, 11:49 AM
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Hi Mayzie... Sorry for your loss... I had my 2nd m/c on Tuesday and it has been a rough couple of days, for sure. I hope that you get some better answers and that bfp with a sticky bean! PM me if you need to talk. Big Hugs.
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April 25th, 2008, 05:04 PM
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I'm so sorry for your losses. It's always sad to welcome someone here, but you will find the ladies here to be incredibly supportive, understanding & all around wonderful human beings. Unfortunately we have all been through this, each in our own way, and each with her own grieving process. There is no right or wrong way to "handle" miscarriage, I am convinced. It's definitely not fair that some of us have to go through so much while others conceive at the drop of a hat, have a normal pregnancy without any worries & have healthy babies. What can make it worse is that a lot of people don't understand how miscarriage hurts unless they go through it themselves, so it's hard to talk about it. That's one reason why this forum is so great, because you can talk about anything & we understand.

It is always so frustrating not to know what the issues are! Did you go on blood thinners? Sometimes there is a combination of problems, such as with me - I had to take lovenox, have some kind of lymphocyte immune therapy, & have my embryos screened for genetic abnormalities because I also make bad eggs. It took 3 years and 4 miscarriages (and a ton of heartache) to figure this out. I'm sure you'll find the answers much sooner than we did!
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April 25th, 2008, 07:30 PM
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welcome to the board - I'm so sorry to hear of your losses. The ladies here are all amazing! It's sad that ANY of us are here, but I'm glad that we're all here to help each other through our journeys. I'm 24 & have had 4 losses - with a healthy baby girl in between...
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April 26th, 2008, 07:40 AM
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Hi Mayzie - I'm sorry to hear about your losses. You've come to a great place to vent, cry, ask question or just talk. I also just had my 3rd m/c not too long ago. This board has provided so much comfort - everyone here has been through the same and can relate to all the feelings (grief, sadness, anger, confusion) yoiu are having. Hope you stay around. We are all here for you.

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April 26th, 2008, 07:44 PM
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Mary, I am so sorry for your losses. As the other ladies have said, we really do understand here. It is often difficult if not impossible to get enough support from friends & family because so many just simply cannot relate. I hope that you find this place to be a haven to go to in order to get the love, support & encouragement that is so important while you are trying to sort things out & heal. I wish you all the best & hope that you will stick around & get to know us a bit better & give us a chance to get to know you. Also - feel free to pop into the sub-forum for "graduates" to talk about your miracle baby as well. We really do want to make you feel welcome here & we want you to get the support that is so important right now.

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