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  #1  
September 18th, 2008, 07:09 AM
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It appears that I am losing another pregnancy. This is my first early miscarriage though. I got a + HPT on Monday (ok, like 5 of them) but it was very light. Tuesdays was the same and Wednesdays was even lighter. Last night I started bleeding and today the test was negative. I'm assuming this is a chemical pregnancy.

My first loss was 2 months ago when we lost our son Clark at 20 weeks due to placental abruption.

Has anyone dealt with anything like this and gone on to have a healthy pregnancy? I want another baby so bad but am so discouraged right now.
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September 18th, 2008, 12:48 PM
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A sad, but warm welcome. I'm so sorry for both of your losses. I have not had a stillbirth, but I'm sure there's someone here that can share with/encourage you.
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September 18th, 2008, 02:34 PM
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Alicia I am so sorry for your losses. There are many women here with many stories - and even many that have gone one to have healthy babies after repeat losses. I hope that you can find the love, support & encouragement you need here to help you on your journey to healing & to support you in moving in whichever direction you feel is best. It is so hard to deal with loss & then to deal with so close together makes it harder it seems as well. Please know that we are here for you & want to help ease whatever we can or answer any questions you may have. I have not had such a later loss as you experienced, but I have lost 4 babies before I had my DS. I think most of us have felt like giving up at one time (or many times) and I for one had many times where I really didn't feel I had any hope left. I think that is a normal part of grieving & processing. I am certain if you stick around a bit you will find that we all have a lot in common & they way we process & many of the things we have all felt & thought are all very normal responses to loss.

Much love!
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September 18th, 2008, 02:37 PM
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We've begun to raise daughters more like sons... but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters. ~Gloria Steinem

If a man has been his mother's undisputed darling he retains throughout life the triumphant feeling, the confidence in success, which not seldom brings actual success along with it. ~Sigmund Freud
My mom is a neverending song in my heart of comfort, happiness, and being. I may sometimes forget the words but I always remember the tune. ~Graycie Harmon
Don't wait to make your son a great man - make him a great boy. ~Author Unknown
You don't raise heroes, you raise sons. And if you treat them like sons, they'll turn out to be heroes, even if it's just in your own eyes. ~Walter M. Schirra, Sr.
A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest. ~Irish Proverb
Mother's love is peace. It need not be acquired, it need not be deserved. ~Erich Fromm
Children need love, especially when they do not deserve it. - Harold Hulbert
Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children. ~William Makepeace Thackeray
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September 18th, 2008, 04:08 PM
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I am so sorry for your losses Alicia. I know there are many women on this board who have gone on to have healthy babies after multiple losses.

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September 18th, 2008, 05:23 PM
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I saw your post on the stillbirth forum this morning and I'm so sorry that this is happening.

I've had two losses (3 babies), but I'm not actively TTC.

Just give your body a little more time to heal before TTC again, I know some doctors recommend up to six months before TTC after a stillbirth.
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September 19th, 2008, 07:47 PM
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I'm so sorry that you had another loss.

The ladies in here are wonderful.

My heart goes out to you.
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September 22nd, 2008, 07:52 AM
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I'm sorry to need to welcome you here, but glad that you found us and reached out. We strive to keep this a safe place, full of support from women who truly know what recurrent loss feels like.

I'm so very sorry for your losses.
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September 24th, 2008, 08:06 AM
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Alicia - I am so sorry for your loss.

I have had two m/c's and gone on to have a healthy pregnancy that resulted in our DD Sydnee. There is hope....
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