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  #1  
September 26th, 2008, 07:50 AM
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I started bleeding yesterday but didn't panic because it was light, by 12am I was in the ER.
I passed the baby at 3am.
I have given up on having my third child, I can't do this anymore..


I am going to rest today, my babies are at grandma's.
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September 26th, 2008, 08:52 AM
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I'm so sorry. I know there are no words. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.

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September 26th, 2008, 10:00 AM
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I am so incredibly sorry. I wish there was something I could do to take your pain away but I know there is not.

Sending you lots of healing vibes and You are in my prayers.

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September 26th, 2008, 10:30 AM
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Oh sweetie Im so sorry. I pray that your physical healing is quick, and that your emotional healing goes smoothly. HUGS
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September 26th, 2008, 11:02 AM
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I am soo sorry! Hugs!!!
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September 26th, 2008, 03:48 PM
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Oh hun - I am so sorry. I know this has to be just devastating. I wish there were something more I could say. This is just so very very hard. I know right now you don't want to try again & maybe in time you will find that is true - or maybe in time you will decide you want to give it one more time...it's hard to say in the midst of dealing with such grief & it really is something you have lots of time to decide on. Right now just focus on healing & getting through this. I really am sorry and please know we are here for you whatever you need & wherever you decide to go from here.

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September 26th, 2008, 06:52 PM
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I am so sorry. ((hugs)) T&Ps.
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September 26th, 2008, 07:39 PM
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Wow, I'm very sorry to hear this. As usual Beck has said it better than I could so I'll just ditto her. You are certainly in my thoughts and prayers. {{hugs}}
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September 26th, 2008, 07:53 PM
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((((huge hugs))))) I am just so sorry.
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September 27th, 2008, 05:55 AM
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Shannon, right now I want to see you, holding your sweet baby, I will continue to pray for it.


Thank you ladies. Dh wants me to wait and then decide on another one. I don't care if I have another one, I just never want to lose another child.
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September 28th, 2008, 05:24 AM
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I am so sorry.....Thoughts and prayers to you and your family!!!

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September 28th, 2008, 07:43 AM
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Tina, my heart truly goes out to you. I can tell you I have been exactly where you are now. After my last loss I said the exact same thing. I was also told to give it some time and allow myself to heal both physically and emotionally before making a decision and I tell you it's great advice. If I had given up at that point I would not have my baby Nick. I felt the pain in your post and I wish I could do something to take is away.
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September 28th, 2008, 08:48 AM
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I am so sorry sweetie. My heart is breaking for you. You will be in my thoughts a prayers.
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October 2nd, 2008, 05:58 PM
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I am so so sorry!!! ((((HUGS))))
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