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October 4th, 2008, 11:10 PM
Gaby&Emmy'sMama's Avatar aka NZ-Emma
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I really hate this time of year... Sept-Nov are relevant to FOUR of my FIVE pregnancies.

One of the pregnancies is my pregnancy with Gaby - so obviously those memories are completely different to the others... But my other ones, I was pregnant with baby #1 Sept-Nov, baby #2 November, baby #4 Sept-Oct...

Generally I'm okay - but today I was out with Kai & his 7yo son - and all of a sudden I was thinking that had my first loss not occurred, MY 6yo son could have been sitting, giggling away with Kai's son... I started thinking more about that loss... then about everything i was going through this time with my ectopic pregnancy.... & I started feeling like the movie theatre was closing in around me, took everything in me to start paying attention to the movie again & not just sit & cry.

... makes me feel so lonely Kai is supportive, but he doesn't get it the way he would if he was a woman who'd experienced a loss... kwim...

anyway, I'm probably going to be posting around here a lot over the next while.... I'm so glad this board (& all you ladies) is here...
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October 5th, 2008, 04:43 AM
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I understand what you are going through. My best friend was pregnant at the same time I lost Jasmine and sometimes when I look at her daughter my heart breaks and I think "Thats what Jasmine would have been doing"..... It hurts, its painful, its sad..... but somehow we get through those days. I wish I had a magic cure for how we feel... something that could just take it all away.

(((HUGS))) - I am so sorry honey.

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October 5th, 2008, 07:52 AM
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I'm sorry Emma...

I guess I should count myself lucky, my losses and EDD's happen sort of together (EDD mar, Loss Apr, EDD Nov, Loss Aug), but it still sucks!

Cuddle Gabi nice and close!
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October 5th, 2008, 03:10 PM
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thank you both
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October 7th, 2008, 06:23 PM
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How are you doing honey? Just checking up on you...
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After 2.5 years TTC with 4 losses our Family was given the gift of Miss Scarlett
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Do not ever give up hope...


Miss Scarlett... Our miracle girl still brings happy tears to my eyes.



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