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October 5th, 2008, 09:36 AM
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Sigh.. I didn't tell my parents about my m/c in April. My dad has cancer, and wants nothing more than a grandchild before he goes. And since my mom think's I'd be stupid to have a baby until I'm more stable in life, I didn't want the stress.

I let it slip the other night and she admitted she knew I was going to have multiple miscarriages from the day I was born. i was like "eh ?"

Apparently when I was born a little old lady in the hospital told a nurse that the baby born 15 minutes before (I was the only baby born on that day) in the hospital was going to have heart break. And she wrote down her prediction.

"She will love to 8 children. Starting with sons, and then a girl. She will hold few in her arms and most in her heart."

UM... ***? I'd have laughed if off it I didn't know that I've lost two boys and a girl already. My mind instantly flips to "Am I having 5 kids? How many more miscarriages am I going to have? "

I'm upset because she didn't tell me after the first loss, but I'm upset that she told me because now when I do get pregnant I'm going to worry even more!

Has anyone else ever had a prediction made?
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October 5th, 2008, 01:35 PM
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Don't but any thoughts into it, I was told my dad's soul would be in my oldest son.
It's hard not to think about those things but know you will have a child or children, sometimes it takes longer.
I don't tell family I'm pregnant anymore(except dh) until I'm past 12 wks.
I want to give you hugs.

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October 5th, 2008, 02:56 PM
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Thanks.

It's just weird that mom never told me, but it's partially come through.

I wasn't worried about m/c ing again until I got stupid the other night. I've only had sex once since I lost mattie... and don't I go and be stupid about it?

LOL.. so don't hug me.. smack me!
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October 5th, 2008, 03:45 PM
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I never had any predictions like that made - not that i know of anyway....

But my old best friend, her sister in law told me one night I had a little boy following me around (spiritually) - and that was about 18m after my first loss, I felt I was having a boy with that pregnancy...
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October 6th, 2008, 12:42 AM
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Oh yes, I have posted about this before. After I lost my fourth angel, I returned to work. I worked in a restaurant and was standing at the front by the hostess area and a woman came in. I was alone up there and she walked up to me and said "you just lost a baby didn't you?" I told her yes. Then she said "I am psychic and I see your baby with you now and she wants me to tell you it just wasn't her time but it's coming". She told me not to give up hope because I will have my baby with me when it's her time. Well, I didn't give up and ended up losing 3 more and gave birth to my DS in June of 2006. I always think back on the fact that she said "her" time will come because the child I had was a boy. I will always wonder if I was meant to have another (now that I am done having babies) or if the spirit of my baby boy was once a feminine spirit. Just things I think about.
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October 6th, 2008, 03:32 AM
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I've had readings done for the heck of it since I got older... none of them have ever been all that promising for fertility. As long as I can bring one baby into my arms I'll be happy....
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October 6th, 2008, 05:33 AM
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After my second loss, I had someone tell me that I would have six healthy children before I was 35.
I was also told that X and I would be together for over 25 years, that didn't happen either.
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October 6th, 2008, 07:01 AM
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After my second loss, I had someone tell me that I would have six healthy children before I was 35.
I was also told that X and I would be together for over 25 years, that didn't happen either.[/b]

lol.. the woman didn't specify how many years I'd be with someone.. which is good because I stress over my relationships (or lack there of) enough now as it is.
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Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
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October 6th, 2008, 04:44 PM
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Just like with anything, there are quacks and there are authentic psychics so you kind of have to take it for what it's worth. Maybe your mother didn't tell you about it because it seemed insignificant to her. It's just like the predictions of Nostradamus, you don't know what they mean until they come true so most people don't give it another thought. You have to wonder if it's going to happen because it's fate or if the suggestion that it's going to happen makes it a reality.......
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