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October 20th, 2008, 01:27 PM
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Today is a year since I had surgery for my ectopic pregnancy..... I'm not feeling as bad as I thought I would be, but I am thinking about it a lot...

I am going to to the beach after I've taken Gaby to preschool, spend some time in my 'thinking place'.......

Wow... a year.......
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October 20th, 2008, 03:40 PM
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HUGS Emma!!! I am glad you are feeling like you are in an "okay" place right now. It can be complicated describing sometimes all of the feelings that go along with loss.... I hope you are finding some peace today!

Much love!
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October 20th, 2008, 07:48 PM
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((((hugs)))) Anniversaries can be so hard. Praying today was gentle on you and that you had a peaceful time at the beach.
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October 20th, 2008, 09:00 PM
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I went to the beach & it was quite nice - weather was good, but it was pretty quiet (minus the sounds of the ocean!) & I did a lot of thinking & reflecting. I walked a bit - forgot how hard it can be to walk in sand

I wrote each of my babies names in the sand... sucked having so many names to write







I'm glad I went, I think I *needed* to do it, to get it all out & prevent an emotion explosion tonight or later this week.

Oh this is a random tree? huge piece of driftwood? that I found.... It had 4 little branchy knob things on it, and I couldn't help but feel it was one for each of my angels..

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October 25th, 2008, 06:51 PM
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