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November 29th, 2008, 05:34 PM
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its gonna be 2 differnet stories...
I Found Out I Was Pregnant In May Of 2004. I Got Medcade And Wic And Everything..Of Course I Had To Go To The Pregnancy Center And Get A paper To Make Sure I Was Pregnant And Get The Due Date By The Last Period. Anyways, I Called The Doctors And Got A Doctor Appointment. The Doctor Appointment Was June 9th, 2004 At 10:30am. So On I Went With A Regular Day. So On 6-3-04 I Went To The Bathroom To Use The Restroom Because I Was Going To Get In The Shower, And I Realized I Was Spotting, I Asked My Sister For A Pad, She Asked Me Why And I Told Her I Was Spotting. She Called Elwin's Sister And They Took Me To The Emergency Room. We Got In, And They Were Trying To Do A Ultrasound OF The Baby And They Couldn't Find Him/Her. So They Tried With The Vaginal Ultrasound..They Still Couldn't Find My Little One. So They Aready Figured My Pregnancy Was Non-Normal. So They Told Me To Come Back Sunday At 9am, So I Could Get Blood Work Done To See What Was Going On. So All That Stuff Was Gonna Happen On Sunday, If The Test Was Going To Come out Normal Pregnancy Then I Was Fine To Go, And If It Came Out Non-Normal They Were Going To Give Me A Shot To Make Me Have A Miscarriage. Anyway, I Want Home And I Went To Bed. 6-4-04 I Got Up At 9:45am With Contractions And All Kinds Of Pains. So I Went To The Bathroom And Did My Stuff..And To My Suprise But When I Would Sit Down On The Toilet, It Would Fill Up With Blood. Their Was Blood Just Pouring Out Of Me..So I Went To Mine & Elwin's Bed Room And Told Elwin To Get Up That Something Was Wrong. I Told Him To Go Look In The Toilet, And He Did, And He Woke His Mom Up To Show Her How Bad It Was. So I Went Into Her Bathroom And Of Course, The Same Thing Happened. So We Went Back To The Emegency Room And We Go There In Like Five Minutes. They Took me Straight Back To Her Bathroom. I Had To Get A Suit, And They Let Me keep My Panties On. At 11:24am They Were Ready To Look. So Of Course I Had To Remove My Panties..And I Seen My Baby.the doctors at the hopsital done blood work and said i was 18weeks along. I Felt So Bad After That, I Mean I Just Cried And Cried, I Thought Their Was Nothing Left For Me To Live For..He/She Wasn't Developed Yet, It Looked Something Like A Blood Clot To Me, But I Wasnt Sure. So That's How I Lost Him/Her. R.i.P Baby! Mommy & Daddy Misses You And Thinks About You All The Time! We Love You & Wish You Were Here With Us So We Could See And Hold You. We Love You Sooo Much Baby! We Weren't Sure What I Was Having, But I Felt In My Heart That It Was A Little Boy. So That's What I'm Sticking With! Our Little Boy, We Named Him Lil' Munchkin..R.i.P Sweetheart, We Will NEVER Forget You! Your Always In Our Hearts!

HERES THE STORY FOR NUMBER 2
n September 10, 2005 I Was Feeling Sick And Everything. Everytime I Ate Food Or Smelled It Or Drank Anything I Just Threw It All Back Up. So I Tried To Deal With It As Much As I Could. So On September 14, 2005, Mine And Elwins 3rd Year Anniversary And he Was Gone Most Of The Day With My Dad. Yeah I Was Mad Because We Were Supposed To Be Doing Stuff Together But He Was Gone With My Dad. Around 11:00pm They Took Me To The Emergency Room. I Went And Check In And Everything And I Also Had To Pee In A Cup. Well Anyway, I Went To The Room and The Doctor Came And Talk To Me and Pushed On My Belly And Asked Me Different Questions. Like When Was Your Last Period? I Told Him, June 19, 2005. He Asked Me If I Thought I Might Be Pregnant. I Told Him That I Didn't Know, Maybe. And He Asked Me If I Was Trying To Get Pregnant. I Told Him I Was. He Talked A Little More And Then He Said He Was Going To Go Check My Pregnancy Test Results. He Left. 5 or 10 Minutes Later He Came Back In The Room And Told Me I Had A Urinary Tract Infection And That I Was Pregnant. I Was Like Theirs No Way. And He Said Yes, "You're Pregnant!" He Talked To Me More And Asked If I Wanted Them To Do A Ultrasound Of The Baby And Make Sure Everything Is Going Well. Of Couse I Said Yeah. They Moved Me To Another RoomSo They Could Put A Cathedar In Me To Fill My Bladder Up With Water So They Can Do The Belly Ultrasound and Get A Good Picture. I'm Not Sure And I Dont Understand Why They Done That, But Anyway He Finally Got Done With That Part Of The Ultrasound So He Let The Water Out Of My Bladder And I Was So Happy And Felt alot Better. He Went To Get A Nurse In The Room With Us So He Could Do The Vaginal Ultrasound. It Hurt So Bad With The Cathedar Inside Of me. Well Anyway, He Got All That Done So I Got Rolled Back To My Room That I Was First In. So Me and My Sister Sit And Waited On The Doctor To Come And Tell Us About The Ultrasound Pictures. So He Came Back In Ten To Fifteen Minutes Later. He Said That The Baby Was Fine And Is Where He/She Need's To Be. So After They Talked About All The They Let Me Go Home. They Pulled The Cathedar Thing Out And It Hurt. I Couldn't Pee For Like Four Hours. Elwin Didn't Know Nothing ABout This Until I Got out With. We Were Both Happy Cuz We Was Having A Baby On The Way. I Got Home And Went To Bed. Days And Weeks Went By After That. So U Got Medacade And Called The Doctors To Get A Appointment. I Couldn't Get In Until November 30, 2005. On 10-9-05 My Stomach Was Hurting So Bad I Couldn't Sit, I Had To Keep Walking. So They Made Me Go To The Hospital. So I Went There And They Were Three Pregnant Girls There With Me. I Dont Know What Was Wrong With The Other Two, But One Got Sick Of Waiting And She Walked Out. Her Mom Said That She Was Bleeding Real Bad. I was Next, They Put Me In A Room, Talked To Me For A Few Minutes. Then They Tried To Find My Baby's Heart Beat With The Doppler. But Their Was Nothing. So They Knew SOmething Was Wrong. So They Called The People From OBGYN To Come With A Portable Ultrasound To Come And Look So They Did That And Still couldnt Find The Heartbeat Or They Couldn't Find The Baby. So They Didn't Believe I Was Pregnant, But They Seen The Watersac And The Size Of My Uterus. Anyways, They Figured The Baby Died. They Gave Me Three Options To Get This Out Of Me, So The Pain Will Stop. 1. Is D&C 2. Let Me Pass It On My Own, 3. Is Some Kind Of Pills To Make Me Pass it Faster. So I Decided To Get A D&C And Done. The Hospital Set Me Up A Doctors Appointment For 10-13-05 At 10:30am. So I Was Waiting A Week To Go To The Doctor. When I Finally Got To Go To My Doctors Appointment, We Sat And Talked. I Waited Forever To Get Seen. They Put Me On BirthControl Shots Before I Got My D&C Done. I Couldn't Believe That They Had Done That But Whatever They Said Was Fine. Anyways So I Got My D&C Appointment Set Up On 10-21-05 At 7:30am. So I Waited Another Week And I Had To Becareful So I Dont Miscarriage On My Own. So When I Went To The D&C Appointment. We Waited & I Had To Fill Out Papers. I Mean Their Was Alot. So Then I Had My Blood Drawn..They Told Me My Blood Type And Everything. Anyway, They Finally Took Me Back Into The Room And Got Me Ready For The D&C. So ThenThey Finally Done This. I Was Scared And Upset Cuz They Told Me All The Things That Could Happen. When I Got In The Room They Gave Me Some Kind Of Medication To Put Me To Sleep. All I Know Is Going in The Room and Seeing all These Lights And Machines. And Then I Was In Another Room Crying. They Said It Was From The Medication They Put In The IV. So They Took Me In Another Room And Made Sure I Could Use The Bathroom And Eat And Drink And Hold It All Down. So They Put Me On Bedrest For A Week..I Miss My Baby So Much! I Wish You Were Here To Hold In My Arms. Me And Your Daddy Always Think About You And We Miss You Very Much!! We Love You As Well! You And Your Brother Is Looking Over Us At All Times! You Two Are Our Guardian Angels! We Love You Very Much && Will Never Forget You! I Wasn't Far Along Enough With This Baby To Tell What It Was Either, But I Had A Feeling In My Heart It Was A Little Girl. And I'm Sticking With It. We Named Her Lil' Monkey..R.i.P Lil Monkey, We Love You Very Much!! the hosiptial done blood work and said i was around 9wks..

now i got 2 babies here on earth wit me that my angels in heaven are lookin over each and everyday. i believe that when tyler was born (he was born dead Long story if u wanna know message me and ill be glad to tell) that my angels in heaven talked him into cummin back after they revied him.. my angels in heaven was watchin over there brother and new i wanted him to be alive again

Sarah & 2 Angels In Heaven & EJ & Tyler
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I'm so sorry sweetie!
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