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December 17th, 2008, 05:40 AM
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With 2009 being right around the corner, I am reminded that I am that much closer to Gwen's First Angelversary. Three days later it will be Dominic's Second Angelversary. It won't make for a happy start to 2009.

My main concerns for the upcoming new year is how I will cope with my losses as the angelversarys and due dates near. I worry financially, but that's nothing new to anyone planning and paying for a wedding.

What about you? What are your concerns? Do you have any?
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December 17th, 2008, 02:35 PM
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I'm worried that I won't get pregnant before March (my three year TTC mark and last round of Clomid) and that DH isn't going to be willing to move on to IUI or IVF if necessary.

I'm also stressed out about facing 5 more EDD's and 5 more angelversaries without being pregnant. I don't know....I just have to take it one day at a time and not look too far into the future.
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December 17th, 2008, 04:21 PM
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Honestly right now my worries are focused around my family. I have cut ties with my dad and I wonder if I can stick to my decision knowing it is the best choice in regards to him. I also worry because my sister has been so sick these past few months that I can't help but wonder if 2009 will be the year we've all known was coming and try to avoid even thinking about. I do worry how I'm going to handle the coming angelversaries again, especially knowing now that there will be no more children.
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I am just praying this little one is my sticky bean and 2009 proves much better on me than 2007 and 2008 combined. I don't have an EDD until February but after that the EDDs and angelversaries come pretty much back to back. I have noticed that most of the time the days leading up to those dates are really much worse than the actual day...and it also depends on my general mood at that time. Sometimes it is horrible and others aren't so bad.
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December 27th, 2008, 09:54 PM
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Bumping as we get closer to the new year.
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December 28th, 2008, 06:36 AM
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I worry about my TTC journey when it finally begins, or if it will ever begin at all. I'm single, have been for 8 months now. Every month I'm single is one month further from a TTC date, and although I'm only 25, I want to do this as young as possible because if I'm having problems staying pregnant I want to get it fixed before I get too far up in years. I'd like to be done having children in 5 years, not starting to have them.

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Lots of to you girls. Ashley, I'm 24 and feel the same way about wanting to be DONE by the time I'm 30. DF and I will probably start trying right away after each child. (He wants two, I want three.) We'd love to have them close in age. There's also the concern of miscarriage (obviously) so we figure the sooner we start the better.
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I'd be perfectly happy with one child, but I'd love to have one of each. I have a feeling that I'm not going to enjoy pregnancy at all from fears and pains, but I just want that baby in my arms!
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December 28th, 2008, 09:34 AM
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My fears about 2009 right now are with my current pregnancy. I am hoping that I do not offend anyone talking about it on the main board!!

I had issues when I was pg w/Sydnee that are starting to rear their ugly heads once again. I DO NOT WANT TO BE IN THE HOSPITAL AGAIN!!! With Sydnee I was hospitalized for 56 days from weeks 24-34. I cannot imagine being away from Syd that long. I am trying to take it easy at home, but with the holidays it just isn't as easy. Hopefully with the new year things will slow down.
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My fears about 2009 right now are with my current pregnancy. I am hoping that I do not offend anyone talking about it on the main board!!

I had issues when I was pg w/Sydnee that are starting to rear their ugly heads once again. I DO NOT WANT TO BE IN THE HOSPITAL AGAIN!!! With Sydnee I was hospitalized for 56 days from weeks 24-34. I cannot imagine being away from Syd that long. I am trying to take it easy at home, but with the holidays it just isn't as easy. Hopefully with the new year things will slow down.[/b]
I hope you don't go back in the hospital. Keep us updated.
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