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December 19th, 2008, 07:55 AM
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My ex just had a baby in October and I've gone to see her a few times. He and his GF knew I was pregnant and I told him I lost my baby last week. I went last night to see the baby, and was talking to his GF about everything and she said...

"You should be happy you miscarried, I'm so tired this is so much work. She cries all the time, and wakes up at night..." blah blah blah... "Consider yourself lucky."

LUCK B*TCH?!? Me? Lucky? I would kill to have my baby back. I would like to kill her for saying that. I would give ANYTHING to be up all night with a beautiful baby.

I'm livid just talking about it.

Ugh.

Lucky I didn't kill her...

Somehow, Someway I escaped a felony murder charge.

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December 19th, 2008, 04:18 PM
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I don't know how you did it! I wouldn't have been able too. I'm so sorry she said that to you. I really just want to go smack her for you.
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December 19th, 2008, 08:08 PM
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I would have wanted to smack her
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December 20th, 2008, 02:57 PM
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It was definitly an insensitve thing to say. Often people dont realize how hurtful things are before they say them, they just fling those verbal bullets and shoot us right in the heart.
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December 21st, 2008, 09:01 AM
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I know what you mean. When I lost my second child I had this so called friend who called me and told she was sorry I lost my baby but her's made it and she wish it hadn't because it wouldn't stop crying....just like that and hung up the phone. Needless to say, I wanted to go to hospital and strangle her with a cord, literally. It makes me sick when people write others losses as a win.
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December 21st, 2008, 01:48 PM
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I hate people who do things like that.

I was in line at a McDonalds one day and this tall skinny very prego girl was moaning and groaning about being pregnant, couldn't wait til it was over.... blah blah blah... I was not happy with her. And the minute she said "too bad that early spotting wouldn't have been a miscarriage..." I flipped out. I started yelling at her, scared her crapless! LOL. An old lady applauded me and bought me my supper
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December 21st, 2008, 11:10 PM
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It never ceased to amaze me how stupid & insensitive people can be. I really truly believe that if you don't want a baby & consider those who have had mcs as "lucky" then you should give your baby to someone who would cherish them.
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Yeah I've had people say that to me too. It breaks my heart that they can reproduce.
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