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January 3rd, 2009, 04:25 PM
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Hey I had a D/C this morning which marks the end of my 4th pregnancy. I have never even been in the 2nd trimester. I feel hopeless, like I will never be a mommy. I get so excited with every pregnancy only to have my world come crashing down with another miscarriage. The D/C still hasn't set in yet, I kinda feel like I am still pregnant. I expect it will hit me hard in a few days.
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January 3rd, 2009, 04:37 PM
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I am very sorry for your loss hun. The first few days are always surreal, because you feel pregnant, but you're really not

Have you ever had any genetic testing done to rule out a genetic issue or had any testing yourself? After three losses doctors usually agree to start running tests.

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January 3rd, 2009, 05:43 PM
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My doctor wants to start running tests at my 6 week check up... They apparently are running tests on the baby as well.
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January 3rd, 2009, 05:45 PM
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Welcome to RPL, sweetie. I know we talked a good bit last night, but I want to say again how truly sorry I am about your losses. Once again, let me know if there's anything I can do for you.
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January 3rd, 2009, 05:48 PM
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((((huge hugs)))) A very warm, but sad welcome to the RM&PL forum. I'm glad you found us....and that you are having testing done. Praying you find some easily treatable answers.
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January 4th, 2009, 02:46 AM
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I am so sorry for your losses. It is so hard to keep hope when you have loss after loss. I was in a very hopeless place before I had Ds I had lost 4 babies confirmed & believe I had one unconfirmed loss as well. I know right now it is hard to keep hope - but we have had MANY women here go on to have healthy babies after many losses, myself included. I hope that coming here you will find the validation, love & support you need to not only find some healing but also to inspire you to continue to hope and continue to be open to trying again. It can be so lonely, it can be so depressing & heart breaking, it can be totally devastating.....that is why this is such a great place. Everyone here KNOWS that. We know that you can post that you had a great day at work, or got a new car & be happy about that that day, or even for that hour & then turn around & post how devastated you are & something totally set you off. We get it. Healing isn't a straight line.....and it doesn't need to be. We are here for you regardless of where you are at today....or even in the moment. Again - I am really sorry for your losses & am glad you have found us. I have found this board to be absolutely instrumental in maintaining (and at one point regaining) my sanity through this messy crazy difficult journey.
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January 4th, 2009, 06:00 AM
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I am so sorry for your losses, but glad that you have found us. All of us ladies here know what you are going thru. Post whatever you want, whenever you want. PM us....we are here for us. Most of us are at different places for our losses, but all of us can help w/the healing and the why's, the questions, the testing.

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January 4th, 2009, 07:11 AM
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I am sorry you have to join us but welcome. I hope the testing gives you some answers. I had a whole list of tests done and none were completely conclusive but I did get some maybes so hopefully with some answers you will begin to have some hope. Take care of yourself and take all the time you need to grieve and we are here for you if you need to cry/vent...or whatever.
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January 4th, 2009, 07:42 AM
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Well said, ladies!
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