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January 5th, 2009, 08:25 AM
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It looks like quite a few are interested in having one. What restrictions would you ladies like it to have?

Like the 1st thread we'll leave this up a week and then I'll place the request. Personally, I'm thinking on the lower side. I don't want to necessarily exclude members, just want a place out of public eye for our members.
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January 5th, 2009, 10:41 AM
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This is a tough one. I know that there are people who come, just looking for a loss board, and that this may be the first board that they post on. Seeing as how we aren't that active, it may take awhile to accrue enough posts to post in the hideaway. On the flip side, the whole point of a protected forum is to have a place where we don't have to be afraid of who is reading the posts. If someone is only a member of the board for a week, or has very few posts on the board, do we really 'know' them well enough to share our most private thoughts with?

Just something to think about. I don't want anyone to feel excluded, but at the same time I want the posters in the subforum to feel protected.
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January 5th, 2009, 08:07 PM
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I said 25 posts and a week.

But I do think only active members should have the password.
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bumping to make sure everyone sees
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one last bump before it's closed on Monday.
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January 11th, 2009, 09:07 PM
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I think it depends.... If someone has been on the board for several years (or heck even a year) & JUST found us - I am not sure I think minimum post #'s are that much of an issue. At the same time I know that women really only open up when they feel safe. I also think it makes a difference if say they used to post on PL a lot & then just came over here....then I am not sure there needs to be a minimum requirement for them as long as the host knows they are a decent person.

I think when a new person enters - there should be a "welcome to the hideaway" post so that everyone knows who is there & has access. I think it is good to have a basic guideline - like 25 posts & 1 month...but I also think there needs to be room for exceptions like I listed. If that makes sense.
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January 11th, 2009, 10:58 PM
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I think it depends.... If someone has been on the board for several years (or heck even a year) & JUST found us - I am not sure I think minimum post #'s are that much of an issue. At the same time I know that women really only open up when they feel safe. I also think it makes a difference if say they used to post on PL a lot & then just came over here....then I am not sure there needs to be a minimum requirement for them as long as the host knows they are a decent person.

I think when a new person enters - there should be a "welcome to the hideaway" post so that everyone knows who is there & has access. I think it is good to have a basic guideline - like 25 posts & 1 month...but I also think there needs to be room for exceptions like I listed. If that makes sense.[/b]
I agree Beckie. Maybe instead of having a welcome thread (or maybe in addition to) any host who gives out the password to someone could note in a thread who the password has been given to. That way, even if someone never comes in and introduces themselves, we all would know who has access to reading our posts.
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