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January 22nd, 2009, 10:53 AM
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So Tuesday i had a OB appt, and i went in thinking things could go wrong cause of the bleeding and everything that had been going on. They had the U/S machine in there already waiting for me. After my pap they did the vag u/s and right away i knew the baby had died. There was no heartbeat and the Subcoronic Hematoma was 50% of the placenta. It just took away too much blood flow from the baby, LIttle boo didn't measure far behind so my guess is sometime Monday the heart stopped cause i was 8 weeks 2 days at my appt and Boo measured 8 weeks 1 day. They set me to have a better u/s done to confirm and of course it was the same out come. They then set me up for a D&C which is what i chose to do i didn't want to wait it out. So i had my D&C yesterday and it went well, my blood pressure did drop really low but after 5000 liters of fluids they got it back up, it was like 80/38 or something along those lines. I woke up on oxygen feeling pretty good other than freezing. I have no cramping at all from the D&C which they were trippin out about and my bleeding has already stopped. Just wanted to update on whats doing on, and let you all know i will be scarce the next few days as i'm still trying to grieve for our loss.
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January 22nd, 2009, 11:14 AM
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Hugs denise. I saw your post in the ddc and my heart broke for you. I'm so sorry about your loss sweetie.

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January 22nd, 2009, 08:09 PM
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I'm glad you did well during the surgery, other than the bp problem. I was looking for your update. Let me know if I can do anything for you honey.
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January 23rd, 2009, 04:48 AM
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Hugs to you!!! I am so sorry for your loss.
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January 23rd, 2009, 05:44 AM
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My heart is just breaking reading this... I'm so sorry for your loss. Many hugs to you and your family.
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January 24th, 2009, 07:50 AM
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I am so sorry Denise. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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January 25th, 2009, 11:04 AM
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Hugs!
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January 25th, 2009, 06:43 PM
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I'm so sorry! **HUGS**
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January 25th, 2009, 07:30 PM
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I am sorry for your loss! I don't know why the drs were panicking I didn't bleed hardly at all after my D&C till like 5 days later....
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January 29th, 2009, 10:58 AM
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Well ladies i'm doing pretty well after everything we have went through. We are going to continue to TTC i'm not a quitter lol I want a baby so bad and i will continue trying until I get one. Anyway we have an appt with my RE set up for the 10th of Feb and we will know the whole plan of action. I will update after my appt.
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January 29th, 2009, 11:27 AM
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I'm glad you're not giving up! I will definitely be looking for an update from the RE appointment!

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Me: Hashi's, PCOS, Insulin resistant, Multiple miscarriages
175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
Colposcopy = CIN1+CIN2 cells Polypectomy - August 21st
Him: MFI low count, low morphology, low motillity
Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
Trying a few cycles of clomid and progesterone. FX this is all it takes.
Cycle 1: Clomid cd3-7 ~ bfn
Cycle 2: Clomid cd 3-7
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