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I'm so sorry for your loss. I could have written your exact post in February. I had an ultrasound at 6w5d and the baby stopped growing at 5w1d. It is the worst feeling ever and I am just so sad that you have to feel that pain too. It doesn't get easy but it does get easier if that makes sense. This was my first pregnancy also and it is my worst fear that I will never get pregnant again or worse, will miscarry again. You've come to the right place. The women here are amazing and will help you get through this. hang in there!
I am so sorry for your loss. That is terrible. It does get easier...with time. It's so hard and sad and scary...but hang in there. As time goes on and your body heals your mind and heart will heal also. Now, that's not to say that it wont hurt...it always will, it just gets easier with time and soon you'll be able to think of that little one with love and not so much hurt. But in the meantime keep talking...these boards are wonderful and the women around here can really help by being able to empathize.....they are wonderful!
Libby it does get better. I am usually a lurker and I had three losses in six months after years of infertility. You are so much stronger than you can ever imagine. I am so sorry that you had to go through this.
I am so sorry for your loss. I too m/c'd with my first, my 2nd and my 3rd but if you read some of the stories on this board if gives you hope. To know that so many other women have gone through this and now have happy health LOs! In time it gets easier to deal with-don't hold back your true emotions about it.