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April 4th, 2010, 01:42 PM
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How are all our RPL mommies holding up this Easter weekend?

Any vents to share today?

Any thing special you want to share?

How does your losses affect your Easter?
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April 4th, 2010, 07:24 PM
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I'm Jewish, so it's not really about Easter, but I had a meltdown about the triplets last night. I am big and pregnant. In fact, I carry in the front, and I'm very big, because for the first 14 weeks of this pregnancy I was carrying triplets. Babies B and C were each the size of avocados when they passed even though they are squished now. But it affected how I look.

And no one will shut up about it. Strangers love to insist that I must be carrying twins. I hear it once a day at least. And at Passover Monday, my cousin Susan WOULD NOT SHUT UP about how I looked like I had multiples in there and she KNOWS **** WELL that I did start out that way. Losing the triplets is NOT A HAPPY MEMORY for me.

And now I am forced to relive it every single day. Last night I flipped out about it. I sat in the shower and apologized to them until the hot water ran out, and then cried about it for an hour with DH.

They're still in there. No one in my life really understands what it's like to carry your two precious lost little ones with you every day for 20 weeks.

Sorry to take over the thread, but absolutely no one understands.
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April 5th, 2010, 07:25 AM
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How are all our RPL mommies holding up this Easter weekend? I did ok...Being around Niecelet so much has helped desensitize me.

Any vents to share today? DH's cousin was stupid enough to bring her baby with RSV to the family dinner!

Any thing special you want to share? Not that I can think of...

How does your losses affect your Easter? Of course I miss them and think about what-if, but yesterday was pretty easy for me all things considered.
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April 5th, 2010, 07:32 AM
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Rebecca, please don't apologize. I wish I had some magic words for you. I know this has been incredibly hard for you, and I feel awful that I don't know how to help..to make it easier for you. If there is anything I can do from afar, let me know.
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April 5th, 2010, 03:33 PM
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I am so sorry Rebecca. I cannot imagine carrying your lost ones for so long. I will be so happy for you when this little guy comes into the world, the pregnancy is over and you can start to live in the now more. When he is here and you can sink your nose into his neck and smell that wonderful baby smell it will help to melt away so much of the pain and sorrow. Hang in there and keep your chin up. Thinking of you.....
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