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Horrible day/Anniversary of what would have been my due date with loss #2


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June 25th, 2010, 06:56 PM
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So today has been a crummy day. I feel so sick (headache, nasuea, tired, weak) and my body is all messed up because im weaning off medicine thats apparently affecting my organs cuz ive been on it for 12 years ...nice huh? so that def doesnt help things but that hardest part is its been a year since I would have been due to give birth. I got pregnant in late August of 2008 and was due a year ago today. I lost the baby at like 8.5 almost 9 weeks on Halloween. Things are complicated now though as the baby's dad (my ex) had denied the baby and the fact i was pregnant when i ended had proof then finally accused me of cheating and broke up with me (over the phone cuz hes a lame-o) so nobody knew anything except my best friend and a few of MY family members. Well now im in a huge mess because apparently my ex spread some sort of nasty rumor about me to his family and they all act weird around/toward me and the best part is my best friend is marrying my ex's twin brother in 3 weeks...guess who are both in the wedding? ME and MY EX!!!! yay! so its been a lovely day thinking i get to face all the family who hates me and the ******* who literally left me to bleed to death when i miscarried at a hockey game and hemorrhaged and he decided the game was more important then taking me to the hospital. I just know looking at him and knowing I carried that fools child and he didnt give a rats *** is gonna kill me and his family to be so rude when i gave them a daughter-in-law and if they knew about the angel grandchild is just wrong. im just hurt and alone right now and my best friends off in la la land with her fiancee....grrrr sorry girls ill stop.

oh and i got the news today my sister is pregnant with number 2 due december 27th...thanks sis lol congrats but not the best day for that news.
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June 26th, 2010, 12:37 AM
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I am sorry for such a rough EDD.
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June 26th, 2010, 09:27 AM
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I'm sorry you had a rough day. Hugs.
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Miscarriage at 10 weeks - February 14, 2009
Miscarriage of twin boys at 11 weeks - September 21, 2009
Chemical pregnancy - January 9, 2010
Miscarriage at 10 weeks - April 21, 2010
Miscarriage at 7 weeks - October 22, 2010
Miscarriage at 10 weeks - May 14, 2011
Miscarriage at 17 weeks - December 7, 2011 (My sweet little Joshua had Achondrogenesis type 2)
Miscarriage at 5 weeks - June 5, 2013

All test results normal. Reason for RPL unknown.

Annabel born healthy at 35 weeks - May 22, 2014
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June 26th, 2010, 09:39 AM
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*hugs* I'm sorry you had such a horrible day. I hope today is much better for you!
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June 26th, 2010, 06:15 PM
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Thanks ladies....i wish i could say today was better but i spent it in the ER....im fine i guess but i feel horrid...
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June 26th, 2010, 08:46 PM
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Why in the ER? Whats wrong?
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June 27th, 2010, 07:29 AM
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*hugs*. I hope everything is ok!
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June 27th, 2010, 10:10 AM
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I wasnt eating or drinking anything cuz i felt so sick....i thought i had a flu bug or something thats going around. I went to the walk in urgent care to get checked out and he did my vitals and rushed me to the ER cuz my heart was in distress. By the time I got there I was fine. LOL the nurses looked at me like i was an idiot but i was extremely dehydrated and im still feeling horrid.
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June 27th, 2010, 01:24 PM
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Aww I'm sorry. I hope you start feeling better soon.
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