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August 27th, 2010, 06:39 AM
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Have you found a sense of peace yet? Have you reached the acceptance stage?
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August 27th, 2010, 08:27 AM
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I think I've found as much peace as I ever will. It still hurts and it doesn't really all make sense, but I think I've healed and accepted it for what it is.
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August 27th, 2010, 08:58 AM
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I will never fully heal, but peace has been found in my heart.
I just have to believe one day I will understand Gods reason.
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August 27th, 2010, 11:42 AM
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Please don't judge me badly on this, but I have completely moved past it. I am ready to move forward with things. I will always remember my babies, but I can't let it hold me back.
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August 27th, 2010, 12:24 PM
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Please don't judge me badly on this, but I have completely moved past it. I am ready to move forward with things. I will always remember my babies, but I can't let it hold me back.


I feel completely blessed. I see how hard it is for others and because I was already in a lot of pain when my losses happened and still am in pain with a custody loss of my older dd, coupled with them being very early and close together, top off by currently being at the end of a successful pregnancy. Everything is working out. I love and achnowlege my angels but do not dwell on them. I am excited that my next Angelvesary the one where we drove under the rainbow on the way home, we will be leaving for the hospital for my induction.
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August 29th, 2010, 07:02 PM
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I am mostly at peace, I think the one I have the hardest time with is my oldest Makenzie, her death was due to dr. error so it is the hardest for me to swallow. Despite it being 13 years ago, I have moments when I am around children that she would be the same age as. The rest of my angels I miss but have dealt with.
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August 29th, 2010, 08:03 PM
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It comes and goes.
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August 29th, 2010, 08:21 PM
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I have finally come to peace with my losses. I still have my moments but I do feel at peace. I believe my angels have a purpose... they are protecting their baby brother.
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August 30th, 2010, 07:22 AM
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I, too, finally feel at peace (or at least have accepted that He had His reasons.)

For me, I owe it all to Joey. Joey will be admitted for transplant two days before Jillian's EDD. In all the talk with Traci and all of my prayers, I feel very strongly that I lost Jillian so that "we" would not lose Joey. (Traci, I may not have met you and your family IRL, but I truly do love you all as though you were my own family. I feel honored knowing you and what you have been through and are going through.)

Basically, in my mind, Jillian is one of Joey's guardian angels. I can totally handle that. In this same mindset, if he needed Jillian for Joey, who's to say there wasn't another child, another family, who needed my precious babies to save theirs. It sucks yes, but I wouldn't wish losing a child on anyone. Especially not a child that has spent there whole life fighting to stay alive.
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