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August 28th, 2010, 08:19 AM
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How often do you find yourself thinking of your future babies?

Do you find it more comforting to think about them often and to make plans for them? (Pick out names, have bedding ideas, et)

Or do you prefer to not think about it at all, because you don't want to get your hopes up?
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August 28th, 2010, 09:14 AM
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How often do you find yourself thinking of your future babies? Every now and then, I start with those whats ifs

Do you find it more comforting to think about them often and to make plans for them? (Pick out names, have bedding ideas, et)
I haven't really done any of that

Or do you prefer to not think about it at all, because you don't want to get your hopes up? When I catch myself thinking of the future, I stop myself.
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August 28th, 2010, 11:58 AM
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How often do you find yourself thinking of your future babies? It's pretty rare, lately, as it seems so far out of my reach.

Do you find it more comforting to think about them often and to make plans for them? (Pick out names, have bedding ideas, et) No, I think it only worsens my pain & reality that I may never have kids. :/

Or do you prefer to not think about it at all, because you don't want to get your hopes up? I usually try to not think about it, for sure.
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August 28th, 2010, 06:36 PM
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Unfortunately my OB has recommended that we not try again so I find myself grieving that there will be no future babies.
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August 28th, 2010, 06:52 PM
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How often do you find yourself thinking of your future babies? All the time.

Do you find it more comforting to think about them often and to make plans for them? (Pick out names, have bedding ideas, et) We already have nursery decor and some names.

Or do you prefer to not think about it at all, because you don't want to get your hopes up? If I have to adopt, I will get my living baby.
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August 28th, 2010, 07:37 PM
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Unfortunately my OB has recommended that we not try again so I find myself grieving that there will be no future babies.
I'm so sorry Karen, I can't imagine how rough it must be to have your doctor tell you you're done. Big hugs.
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August 29th, 2010, 12:28 PM
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Even though we are done, I hope to eventually adopt one day. The pain of losing my babies was too much for DH and I, as well as our kids. I do want to one day adopt, but adopt an older child when my kids are older... the kids that are losing hope of finding a forever home.
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