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August 30th, 2010, 07:25 AM
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What is your biggest TTC/RPL annoyance at the moment?

What is your biggest non-TTC/rpl annoyance right now?
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August 30th, 2010, 07:52 AM
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1. This is going to sound awful, but my biggest is when people who've had 1 loss act like they completely understand what I've been through. Not to say that having any losses is acceptable, they're all sad and heartbreaking. But there's a big difference in someone who has several healthy children having 1 loss, and then going on to immediately have another healthy pregnancy, and the 4 year hell I went through to have Grace. Does that make me sound awful?

2. Only having one working car. It's making me crazy being home all week!
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1. This is going to sound awful, but my biggest is when people who've had 1 loss act like they completely understand what I've been through. Not to say that having any losses is acceptable, they're all sad and heartbreaking. But there's a big difference in someone who has several healthy children having 1 loss, and then going on to immediately have another healthy pregnancy, and the 4 year hell I went through to have Grace. Does that make me sound awful?
Absolutely not! I've gotten better with it over time, but it's one of the reasons I rarely post on PL.
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August 30th, 2010, 09:07 AM
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Thanks Augie!
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August 30th, 2010, 12:07 PM
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What is your biggest TTC/RPL annoyance at the moment? Waiting, I'm done with waiting to TTC but still have to wait until thursday to see what to Dr says.

What is your biggest non-TTC/rpl annoyance right now? Work, I never expected to still be working. I would much rather be a SAHM.


Amber - I also don't think that sounds awful. It's tough sometimes when people think they understand what you have been through but you know that they really have no idea.
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Miscarriage at 10 weeks - February 14, 2009
Miscarriage of twin boys at 11 weeks - September 21, 2009
Chemical pregnancy - January 9, 2010
Miscarriage at 10 weeks - April 21, 2010
Miscarriage at 7 weeks - October 22, 2010
Miscarriage at 10 weeks - May 14, 2011
Miscarriage at 17 weeks - December 7, 2011 (My sweet little Joshua had Achondrogenesis type 2)
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All test results normal. Reason for RPL unknown.

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August 30th, 2010, 02:29 PM
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Amber - It's really NOT awful and I don't even pretend to be on the same level with "only" 2 losses. Thank you all for greeting me so nicely despite that fact

My biggest RPL annoyance at the moment is that even though I'm pregnant, I keep getting more info/medical results/spotting and I just feel like I'm in a constant state of terror. Boo!

My biggest non RPL annoyance is that I can't seem to get ahold of my college to officially be a student there this year (I'm a transfer)
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My biggest TTC/RPL annoyance is that DH never, ever wants to BD during my fertile times. I don't know if this is related to RPL or not but it really bugs me.

My biggest non-RPL annoyance is feeling blown off/ignored. I have been trying to get an answer via email from a woman for more than a week. Today I finally called her, only to get her voicemail. She didn't return my call.
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