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April 28th, 2011, 10:07 AM
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What keeps you going?

I noticed when reading our stories, that most of us are pretty good at hiding the pain, both the emotional and physical. I know I don't even share with DH how bad I physically hurt going through a loss. And with keeping it a secret from most of the world, hiding the emotional turmoil, creates it's own stress.
But I know I'm not ready to give up. I don't feel like our family is complete yet. I desperately want to give DS a sibling. And I KNOW I can have a healthy baby, I've done it before.
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April 28th, 2011, 10:42 AM
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When I was ttc I kept all the rainbow babies in mind. We're not ttc anymore mostly because of money. I can't afford the next step of MA.
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April 28th, 2011, 04:25 PM
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Pretty much Hope. I want to give DD a sibling and like you I had 1 baby so I know its possible.
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April 28th, 2011, 04:38 PM
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With no rainbow baby yet it was hard for me to continue. After the last loss I broke down and honestly said we were not going to anymore. I felt I couldn't keep a pregnancy so why. If I hadn't been pushed by the spirit to ttc again, I wouldn't have.
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April 29th, 2011, 08:29 AM
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I keep going because I feel in my heart that I will have another baby...
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April 30th, 2011, 02:36 PM
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We just really want more children & so we keep going by thinking about our goal. Plus having message boards like this really helps out. And everytime someone says something negative about us TTC again, it just feeds into the "I have to prove them wrong" mode.
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April 30th, 2011, 03:02 PM
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I keep going for the same reasons others have listed. I want my child to have a sibling, and I believe I will be able to have one again.
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