[hollann1984]

Hi Everyone,
I was on this board more last year after my second loss but havent been on much recently.
I am just going through my 3rd loss. It has been a year since the last one and its still just as hard. We have been TTC for 22 months now. This past cycle that we got our bfp on we had just gone to see a new RE and had a plan in place for some infertility testing and then possibly IUI.
Once i found out i was pg I had them do the blood work. First came back normal. Second didnt show a progression. Bleeding started today. I go in tomorrow to see what the level is now. If its not zero then we have to wait a whole cycle more before getting back on our track with testing plans( like fsh testing and hsg). I have atleast asked the my RE look into why this keeps happening to us. We had some general tests done by my OB after the second one but not any genetic testing which is what I think she may do. Hopefully we can do that soon atleast.
I know they say that many woman go through losses and even repeat losses but I cant help but wonder why this happens to us. Im still just upset and confused.

[plan4fate]

Oh Holly I'm sorry. I saw you post the bfp on ttc/wma I haven't been back to see any update.

*hugs* to you and your DH. I hope the RE can come up with some answers for you!

[hollann1984]

Thank you Ashley.
I see you are from Appleton. Im from Milwaukee

[Squishy]

I'm so sorry Holly

I just got my "answer" a couple of months ago, after having 4 miscarriages. I have a mutation of the MTHFR gene, and am missing Metfolin, which is necessary to convert folic acid into what it needs to be to be fully absorbed. So my body was only absorbing about 50% of the folic acid I was taking. He put me on RX prenatals with the Metfolin in it that I'm missing. We also found out I have some form of Thrombophilia, which is a blood clotting thing, so blood clots could have been a cause as well.

Both of my problems can be treated while TTC'ing and pregnant, with the RX prenatals, baby aspirin, and Heparin. So there is hope. Even if something is wrong, just keep in mind that a lot of the stuff that causes repeat mc's is treatable. Good luck, and you'll be in my prayers if that's okay.

[RinkMom]

Oh Holly,
I am so sad to see you back here again. I hope you get some answers soon so you can get your rainbow.

[Servilia]

Hi Holly, I'm sorry for you loss. It is normal to ask WHY - I ask myself that sooo many times a day! We're here for you.

[hollann1984]

Thanks so much everyone!
Judy, it seems like we have gone through each of our losses around the same time each time. I am so sorry for your loss as well. I hope we can get answers soon!

[plan4fate]

Originally Posted by hollann1984

Thank you Ashley.
I see you are from Appleton. Im from Milwaukee

My Fiance's ex and his son live here, so this will be our home when he finishes working on the road. We've been here for a month, and are here until we head to Canada (where I'm from) in August. I'm hoping to get to see Milwaukee before we leave (since I might not get to come back for a long while ) he avoids the city like the plague!

[hollann1984]

I love the city but i can totally understand why some would want to avoid it, sometimes it just to busy.

[Mommy_of_7_Angels]

Holly. I'm so sorry sweetie. I hope your doctor will finally be able to give you some answers. *hugs*

[~Tanya~]

I am so sorry I hope you get some answers soon!

[kaylakay]

I'm sorry sweetie...

I hate when people come back not because I don't like them I just want everyone to be blessed with their rainbow baby

I want a magic wand and I would grant every single one of us rainbow babies )

[Servilia]

Originally Posted by hollann1984

Thanks so much everyone!
Judy, it seems like we have gone through each of our losses around the same time each time. I am so sorry for your loss as well. I hope we can get answers soon!

Thanks, I hope so too!! That is a sad coincidence that we had our losses at the same time.

I have the opposite situation with a girl from one of my other boards. She had the same EDD as I had with my first pregnancy, and had that baby. And now she's pregnant AGAIN and has the same EDD as I had this time! It's so weird. I don't begrudge her but cmon what are the odds of that!!