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June 28th, 2006, 08:21 PM
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I just found out yesterday that I am miscarrying again. I miscarried last August/September. I am so numb and hurt. I wish i could get some answers as to why this is happening.
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June 28th, 2006, 08:27 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that. I had my 2nd mc about three weeks ago, and today we got bloodwork done to try to get some answers too, or at least to rule out anything obvious. Don't let anyone tell you to wait for three mcs. If you want to try to find answers, go for it, but don't worry about making the decision until you're ready.

Take care of yourself. You'll be in my prayers.
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June 28th, 2006, 09:01 PM
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I am so sorry that you're going through this.. I hope you'll be able to progress with testing and get the answers you are looking for.. Most doctors will test after the 2nd or often the 3rd m/c, but don't be afraid to push to get some answers.

I think it's completely natural to feel numb.. The pain of losing a child is often too much to handle, especially when you've just learned that you're losing your child.. You're probably in shock and disbelief, too, and maybe in denial.. which is all natural and very much warranted. This is an incredibly difficult time.. Please don't go through it alone, ask for help and support as you need it, and feel free to pm me if there is anything I can do..

My heart goes out to you..
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June 29th, 2006, 06:26 AM
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I'm so sorry. I had my 2nd loss almost 5 weeks ago and there are days where I can't believe that it happened again.

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June 30th, 2006, 04:43 PM
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I am sorry...the numbness is so much a part of a second loss it seems - like it can't REALLY be happening to you. Take care of yourself as much as you can right now & post about your feelings - it's the best way to heal.
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June 30th, 2006, 04:47 PM
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I'm so sorry. Take care and get lots of rest, physically and emotionally.
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July 2nd, 2006, 04:54 PM
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I felt numb after my last loss (baby #4)...I felt like I was "getting use to" m/c if there is such a thing...then I got very angry...and kinda stayed that way i think...anything and everything you feel is ok. We're here for you. Take care.
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