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September 8th, 2011, 04:03 PM
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Planned Parenthood has policy if you have migraines you can only take progesterone only pills.... um... those are the ones that cause migraines, but don't produce aura... so you'll let me die in pain, where I won't even want to look at my Fiance's penis let alone have sex with it, rather than give me what I was able to produce in office that I've been on since December?

So this gives us two options. We knock me up and I get upset because I'd never fit in my wedding dress next summer and possibly risk my immigration, or we don't have sex until he goes back to work.

Why does everything have to be so hard for me? I'm so upset i just wanna go home where things are easy, just expensive.
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September 8th, 2011, 04:55 PM
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*hugs* Can you try a local health dept and just not tell them about your migraines?
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September 8th, 2011, 05:13 PM
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Ditto to Augie...do you have to declare the migraines?
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September 8th, 2011, 08:16 PM
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yes. if I didn't and had a stroke there could be hell to pay for the clinic, and I don't want that to happen. I'll just be off the pill for a month or two, df and I will have to use condoms or something crafty... guess we could do spermicide with the pull and pray... who knows.
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Me: Hashi's, PCOS, Insulin resistant
175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
Colposcopy = CIN1+CIN2 cells Polypectomy - August 21st
Him: MFI low count, low morphology, low motillity
Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
Trying a few cycles of clomid and progesterone. FX this is all it takes.
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September 8th, 2011, 09:00 PM
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I hope you guys are able to figure something out. Alternatives to BCP suck.
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September 8th, 2011, 09:41 PM
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Birth control does suck. That is why DH and I used FAM with condoms or abstinence during fertile times. I couldn't handle hormones and it worked wonders for 3 years.
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September 9th, 2011, 09:17 PM
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We have no type of schedule to our lives, and off the pill I can have super irregular cycles. And since in the past I've gotten pregnant after CD21 (while on the pill) I don't know if I even trust my body.

We think we're just gonna not have sex except on my period and then he'll just pull out. Poor him, we were working hard on having more regular sex, this kinda puts a crimp in it.

I'll call and talk to my doctors office monday anyway, and see if it's possible to get a note faxed to PP like they asked, and what it'll cost me. I might get lucky... not holding my breath tho.
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Me: Hashi's, PCOS, Insulin resistant
175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
Colposcopy = CIN1+CIN2 cells Polypectomy - August 21st
Him: MFI low count, low morphology, low motillity
Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
Trying a few cycles of clomid and progesterone. FX this is all it takes.
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September 10th, 2011, 01:47 PM
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Best of luck, Ash. I hope they are reasonable with a price and not don't ask for your arm and leg.
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September 10th, 2011, 02:07 PM
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I'll offer em a kidney, I got one I'd gladly sacrifice atm. lol.
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Hope 07/22/2012@4w1d, Konnor 11/24/2012@3w6d,"Emmy"1/15/2013@ 3w6d, Ronen 02/10/2013@3w5d, Joy 07/19/2013@3w6d, "Pea" 09/06/2013@ 3w3d

Me: Hashi's, PCOS, Insulin resistant
175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
Colposcopy = CIN1+CIN2 cells Polypectomy - August 21st
Him: MFI low count, low morphology, low motillity
Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
Trying a few cycles of clomid and progesterone. FX this is all it takes.
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September 11th, 2011, 09:00 AM
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lol ***BIG HUGE HUGS*** Hope you start feeling better soon
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