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October 26th, 2011, 05:16 PM
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How far are you planning on going to have another baby? Will you do medical assistance? Will you consider adoption?

I know a few of our girls have moved beyond having a baby of their own by medical means. I'm just wondering where everyone else stands.
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October 26th, 2011, 06:08 PM
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I don't think I will ever do IVF. I wouldn't want to spend the money when I have such a history of losses. It would be a waste of money to just end up in loss again.

We have considered adoption, but at this point we can't afford it. We have been talking again lately about possibly fostering, and we would adopt a child if they came up for adoption.
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October 27th, 2011, 07:02 AM
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I honestly would consider adoption even while TTC. But DH is so against it. Not that he's against "adoption", he just can't see himself dealing with that and taking in someone else's child.

I would be willing to go on medication, but I wouldn't do IVF.
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October 27th, 2011, 09:20 AM
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Well DH changes his mind all the time. Two days ago he wanted to adopt. Yesterday he didn't want anymore kids and after a huge fight this morning he wants to go back to IUI. I really don't know where we are at the present time. I just know that I'm so very tired of it all. I just want my rainbow baby. I really don't care how I get it. I just WANT it.
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October 27th, 2011, 10:20 AM
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Well I don't know what the future holds, but for now we aren't TTC and I don't know if/when we will. I don't see us going the medical assistance route again, we did one cycle with puregon and I'm not convinced it really will help me carry to term. After all, my longest pregnancy was a natural pregnancy.

We are focusing on adoption for now

We are also going to use birth control again (we did until this month) but now that I've seen what it's done to me emotionally, sure I'm not a wreck like I was in the past but it still isn't easy to go through. I sort of like not worrying about TWW and being able to do all sorts of things without worrying about miscarriage (like exercise, drinking, hot tubs etc) at any point during my cycle. I don't think I'm ready yet to even TTC "casually".
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October 27th, 2011, 11:00 AM
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I keep changing my mind. We are currently doing IUI & DH wants to continue down this path. I don't know how much longer I can go doing it this way, we didn't need IUI to conceive our girls, in fact, we conceived them both the 1st month of NTNP. My sister offered a while ago to be our surrogate, so I told her we are thinking of taking her up on the offer the beginning of next year if we don't have a healthy pregnancy going by the end of the year & she has yet to talk about it to me again. Adoption is an option but we have a lot of saving to do before we get to that stage. So, I'm not sure if that will even come into play anymore.
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October 27th, 2011, 02:17 PM
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We stopped just before injectibles. We did 6 rounds of Clomid, three of those with trigger, two with IUI. Now we're NTNP while trying to adopt.
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When we are done with school (4 years minimum) we might consider IUI with injectibles. Might. I'm not sure. We will not do IVF. Our doctor advised against it for our case. Because they can't find a reason for our losses, they can't give us any hope of a better turnout with IUI or with IVF.

We are back and forth on adoption. Not sure what we would do.
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October 28th, 2011, 09:06 PM
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*hugs* to everyone.

we've not actually started our ttc journey yet, so we don't have a finite end. DH is a bit of a penny pincher, so I can't see him doing anything that involved a lot of money unless we had insurance covering it.
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Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
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October 30th, 2011, 05:31 PM
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DH and I are ready to go as far as it takes. We will try medical assistance if it makes sense and of course adoption is always an option. We are not willing to live without children in our lives.
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