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October 30th, 2011, 01:36 AM
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I went to my nieces birthday party Friday. I was okay at first. Then it dawned on me that I'm older than most of the parents that were there. I know a good number of them had no trouble at all ttc. I hate the little daily reminders.
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October 30th, 2011, 11:02 AM
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I'm sorry There are painful reminders everywhere
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October 30th, 2011, 11:18 AM
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October 30th, 2011, 04:24 PM
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I totally understand how you felt. ALL of our friends have children and sometimes I just have to walk away when they start talking about their kids. The reminders can be hard.
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October 30th, 2011, 08:36 PM
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*HUGS*

I have this feeling a lot. DH's sisters aren't much older than I am, his ex is only 2 years older and they all have kids. 5, 7, 8, 10.
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October 31st, 2011, 02:36 PM
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*hugs* ladies. When we were coming home DH and I were talking about it and he made a comment about seeing reminders daily. I think that hurts the worst sometimes...to see his pain. It's comforting to know he loved them too, but I hate that he's hurting. Double-edged sword, I guess.
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October 31st, 2011, 05:48 PM
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Yep, everywhere I find constant reminders, baby announcements, showers, weddings, just going to the store, going anywhere pretty much I see newborns & baby bumps. I should be holding my twins right now, along with my other 3 losses. It gets me when I see "undeserving" people. Like the lady at walmart whose child (couldn't have been older than 4) was wandering around looking for her. She left him in the bathroom by himself while she continued to shop & then went to find him & he was just wandering around the store looking for her. Oh yeah & of course she's pregnant with another child she won't take care of. UGH! Why?! Why do people like that get to just keep having kids yet we would never take them for granted & we can't have anymore or some of us can't have any at all?? Why are they deserving & we are not?!
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