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November 2nd, 2011, 11:37 AM
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If you could give one piece of advice to someone about miscarriages before they even have one, what would it be?
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November 2nd, 2011, 11:56 AM
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If you could give one piece of advice to someone about miscarriages before they even have one, what would it be? Cry/vent as much as you need to - don't hold it in...
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November 2nd, 2011, 12:22 PM
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If you could give one piece of advice to someone about miscarriages before they even have one, what would it be? There is no one way to grieve. Find your way and don't let anyone tell you that you are grieving wrong.
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November 2nd, 2011, 12:31 PM
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If you could give one piece of advice to someone about miscarriages before they even have one, what would it be? Cherish your pregnancy. Realize that you're very lucky if you actually carry to term. If they know they're going to lose the baby but haven't yet: Know that whatever you're feeling, anger, sadness, hope that the dr is wrong, numbness, whatever it is, it is normal. You will make it through this. (I would accompany this with *hugs* too.)
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November 2nd, 2011, 02:30 PM
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If you could give one piece of advice to someone about miscarriages before they even have one, what would it be?
Don't tell anyone you don't think would be supportive if you miscarry that you're pregnant, don't wait til the end of the first trimester to tell people you'd want to lean on for support if you do miscarry.
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November 2nd, 2011, 02:42 PM
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If you could give one piece of advice to someone about miscarriages before they even have one, what would it be?

Enjoy your pregnancy, but always remember that you are never safe. Do not let doctors and nurses brush your concerns and fears over your unborn child's life
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Me: Hashi's, PCOS, Insulin resistant, Adenomyosis and Polyps.
175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
Colposcopy = CIN1+CIN2 cells
D&C/Hysterscopy/Polypectomy - August 21st - Follow up Sept 4
Him: MFI low count, low morphology, low motillity
Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
Weight loss goal #1 - 10% body weight 23.4lbs - accomplished July 13 2014
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November 2nd, 2011, 04:15 PM
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If you could give one piece of advice to someone about miscarriages before they even have one, what would it be? Cherish your pregnancy. You never know when it will be over. Feel blessed if you carry to term and never take anything for granted. Just cause you pass 12 weeks doesn't mean you will come home with a baby.
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November 2nd, 2011, 05:06 PM
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If you could give one piece of advice to someone about miscarriages before they even have one, what would it be?
Cherish your pregnancy, but if you have a miscarriage know that you aren't alone. Don't tell everyone you have ever met that you are pregnant if you don't want to have to explain to all of them that you lost your baby.
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November 2nd, 2011, 08:38 PM
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If you could give one piece of advice to someone about miscarriages before they even have one, what would it be? Pretty much what everyone else has said, cherish everyday and don't take it for granted.
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