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November 11th, 2011, 11:04 AM
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Not what are you afraid of (dark, death etc..) but what is your current biggest fear in life?

an example would be flunking out of college, never having children etc.
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November 11th, 2011, 11:35 AM
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Never having a child I can breastfeed and even name. Foster-to-adopt takes those things away from me.
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November 11th, 2011, 11:39 AM
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Loosing the baby I fought to conceive, stay pregnant with, and birth.
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November 11th, 2011, 12:23 PM
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Mine would be disappointing my husband and getting pregnant despite how careful I'm being. The spermicide we use irritates me badly, but it's our only option so I keep quiet about it was much as I can... but now that we've had our first Ovulation since coming off the pill... I'm afraid it wont give us enough protection. A baby would be a blessing, but it would us in a really horrible position which could leave me back in Wi alone at the end of my pregnancy/with a newborn.

Not to mention that we could ooops, change our lives to fit that oops, and then lose the baby.





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Loosing the baby I fought to conceive, stay pregnant with, and birth.
I hate that after all the hell we go through to have children they are NEVER safe from harm. This world is a cruel twisted place!
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November 11th, 2011, 04:40 PM
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Forgive me for being the outcast, but mine is either drowning or burning to death. I hate fire and I hate water.
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November 11th, 2011, 08:03 PM
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Hmm, I'd have to go with burning to death as a pretty big fear too. Though my biggest fear is of losing my children, especially by kidnapping.
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November 13th, 2011, 04:05 PM
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Right now my biggest fear is losing this baby in a traumatic way. I know that I'll loose this baby, that doesn't scare me, but I've never m/c'ed this late before and that scares me.
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Miscarriage at 10 weeks - February 14, 2009
Miscarriage of twin boys at 11 weeks - September 21, 2009
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Miscarriage at 10 weeks - April 21, 2010
Miscarriage at 7 weeks - October 22, 2010
Miscarriage at 10 weeks - May 14, 2011
Miscarriage at 17 weeks - December 7, 2011 (My sweet little Joshua had Achondrogenesis type 2)
Miscarriage at 5 weeks - June 5, 2013

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November 14th, 2011, 10:42 AM
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My biggest fear is someone taking my child. It is crippling sometimes.. and is very hard to deal with. I think all the losses just make it worse. I had DH put additional locks on the doors of our home this weekend because my 3 year old finally has her own room.. and it's killing me. Oh yes.. you can say it. I have issues! lol
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