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December 15th, 2011, 04:28 PM
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I should be happy, but I'm not. Not even a little and that makes me feel like a horrible person.

SIL is due August 7th. They announced it today. It's not unexpected. She's been wanting to try for a while. I was hoping he'd hold her off longer enough for us to have a "surprise" first.

We've been together longer/married longer/trying longer. I wanted to be the first to give his parents a living grandbaby. It's so unfair and I'm incredibly jealous. Can we just skip Christmas? I know it's going to all about them and the baby and I really don't want to deal with that.
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December 15th, 2011, 04:53 PM
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Saw your FB post...

I am so sorry hun
I hope the holidays go by fast with out much heartache.
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December 15th, 2011, 05:14 PM
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Augie I am so sorry it really isn't fair, that should be you and Chris! I hope they are all sensitive to your feelings at Christmas
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December 15th, 2011, 05:51 PM
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I'm sorry Augie. When I first found out about my sister being pregnant I was like that too. She didn't even want kids. My oldest nephew was a result of BCP failing.


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December 15th, 2011, 06:35 PM
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I'm soooo sorry Augie.

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December 15th, 2011, 08:28 PM
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December 15th, 2011, 09:08 PM
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I remember that feeling. Dan's cousin's wife was pregnant. Eight weeks in the hospital with incompetent cervix, just barely hanging on. I felt awful, my pregnancy was going fine. And then it happened. My son died and two weeks later, her son was born, safe and healthy. All I could think was that the wrong baby died. How awful is that?! But it was normal. It's okay that we have these feelings and think these thoughts.
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December 16th, 2011, 02:02 PM
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Thanks ladies. I seem to be doing a little better today. Definitely had a bawling session last night though.
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December 17th, 2011, 10:23 AM
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ugh there is no graceful way out of those feelings. We have all been there and done that...
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December 17th, 2011, 07:28 PM
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I talked to BIL last night. I didn't come out and say anything about having a hard time with it emotionally but he was great. He pretty much let me guide the conversation the whole way, which was REALLY nice. I haven't talked to SIL yet. I did send her a message saying nothing other than "Congrats"
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December 18th, 2011, 06:56 AM
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HUGS Augie. I've been there with those feelings, you'd better believe it. It's totally understandable considering what you've been through. I'm glad your BIL is being sensitive about it. I hope your SIL is the same way. You'll have a baby in your arms one day soon, I just know it!

I'm going to light my angel candle at Christmas, and I'll be thinking about you.

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