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December 18th, 2011, 07:31 AM
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I hate the little reminders of how RPL has changed me. AF's late. I told Chris a few days ago we weren't allowed to get pregnant for the next 9 months or so because I didn't want to m/c and see SIL carry to term. Now that I'm late, I've told him that if we are pregnant I want to tell ALL of his HUGE family right away so that if we miscarry in the next few days, hopefully, they'd be considerate at Christmas.

I hate that I even have to think that way. I hate that I have to hope to not be pregnant because of loss worries. I hate that I have to think of telling just because of the possibility of loss.

(And, no, I haven't tested. I was cramping slightly last night so I'll wait until tomorrow.)
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December 18th, 2011, 11:37 AM
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December 18th, 2011, 12:22 PM
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December 18th, 2011, 12:55 PM
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*HUGS*

I wish I had your resolve for not testing, I didn't even register an O on my chart this month and I've tested twice since I've been late.
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December 19th, 2011, 05:26 PM
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December 20th, 2011, 07:29 AM
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I know how you feel, m/c warps the usual place of sunshine and roses everyone is supposed to be coming from when it comes to pgcy. I was trying to think of a more eloquent way to say that, but totally failed.
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December 20th, 2011, 11:02 AM
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