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July 11th, 2006, 07:03 PM
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Right now I may be a tiny bit lacking in energy here...but I am trying - I have a hubbub going on with my sister & her daughters. I went late yesterday to pick up my one niece (15) & I finally was able to reach the other (17) today as well (she has been out of the house, living with a friend for about a month). So I am real busy with work as usual, and then I have drama at home too. So for now I have the younger for the remainder of the summer at least & perhaps longer...(but we'll see if my sis gets it together) and the other is at least considering coming here. So - I will try to be active - I got 4hrs of sleep last night at best & finallly wound down tonight - so I probably won't be terribly active - but I'll be here as much as possible & it will settle soon.
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July 11th, 2006, 07:04 PM
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July 11th, 2006, 08:47 PM
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Take care of you too! That is the most important thing hun. Let us be your shoulder, as you have for so many of us, as you handle all that you have going on...we're here for you when you can come on and we understand when you can't. Love you,
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July 12th, 2006, 06:00 AM
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There's no need to apologize for having things going on that keep you off the board.. We're here for you regardless of how active you are here, and we all know that you're here for us to.. Take care of yourself, and let us know if we can help!
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July 12th, 2006, 07:41 AM
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It sounds like you certainly do have your hands full right now. If you ever want to talk "teenage girl woes" let me know. I am dealing with a full plate of that everyday!


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July 12th, 2006, 02:40 PM
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I'm glad you can step in to help with your neices. They couldn't be in a better place right now, with your open and loving heart. I know you'll take good care of them. We'll be here for you when you get a chance to pop in. Right now your neices need you more.

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July 14th, 2006, 03:24 PM
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Thank you all sooo much for the support & undestanding. I think I am feeling a bit more settled - I hope. Things are going okay right now - my sisi still doesn't want to "get into it all" with me she says - but she will have to soon, because I don't think it is fair to leave my niece hanging - so I will make her decide something within this week. It really isn't okay for her to be so hot & cold with her kids...and be so quick to want to rid herself of her problems...they are great girls & they have always spent LOTS of time at my house, so that isn't the problem...it's the calling me late at night - saying rotten things about her kids in front of her kids & telling me that she wants me to take custody or she's putting her into "some kind of placement" that boils my blood. My niece isn't perfect by any stretch, but she is darn close & I can't htink of any reason why someone wouldn't be thrilled to have her as a daughter & proud of who she is. She is emotional & cranky..sometimes a bit lazy & sleeps wayyyy too late - so it's not like I think she walks on water. But she is also sweet, kind, considerate, compassionate, talented, funny & an absolute blast to spend time with. So anyway - for now I am getting her enrolled in drivers training & she is going to work at Dh's store to help pay for it. I don't want to turn this into a bash on my sis - so I will leave it at this. I love my sis...I truly do. I knwo she has many problems that have gone on as long as I can remember & I vastly sympathize with her girls & all they have been through. There is literally hardly anything on earth I wouldn't do for them & it will likely break my heart more if my niece has to go home than any imposition it could ever be to have her here. So I keep myself realistic that my sis may change her mind tomorrow & at the same time I am happy every day that my niece is in a home with no fighting, where she can express her thoughts & feelings about life, friends, boyfriends, etc & feel safe to do so...I am happy that she goes to bed everynight knowing that there is no chaos coming tomorrow & I hope that she receives that for as long as possible whatever hte outcome may be.

Thanks again & I will be around more now I htink. I hope that we have developed some routine & it frees up a little time. Right now she is grocery shopping with Uncle Joel - which means I dont' have to go. WOoohooo!
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We've begun to raise daughters more like sons... but few have the courage to raise our sons more like our daughters. ~Gloria Steinem

If a man has been his mother's undisputed darling he retains throughout life the triumphant feeling, the confidence in success, which not seldom brings actual success along with it. ~Sigmund Freud
My mom is a neverending song in my heart of comfort, happiness, and being. I may sometimes forget the words but I always remember the tune. ~Graycie Harmon
Don't wait to make your son a great man - make him a great boy. ~Author Unknown
You don't raise heroes, you raise sons. And if you treat them like sons, they'll turn out to be heroes, even if it's just in your own eyes. ~Walter M. Schirra, Sr.
A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest. ~Irish Proverb
Mother's love is peace. It need not be acquired, it need not be deserved. ~Erich Fromm
Children need love, especially when they do not deserve it. - Harold Hulbert
Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children. ~William Makepeace Thackeray
God could not be everywhere, so he created mothers. ~Jewish Proverb
The best conversations with mothers always take place in silence, when only the heart speaks. ~Carrie Latet




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