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Post By ShesaDreamer
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I may bend, but not break
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Wisconsin
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Just curious where everyone is standing?
90% of the time I'm fine... but I do find if I have to open up to someone... it's like running a heated blade through my stomach.
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Nicole
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Join Date: Jan 2010
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Recovered!
I have Scouts Angelversary Monday and I miss him/her but the silver lining of my losses being so close together was that I could not have physically had them all as live babies so there isn't a since of loss long term.
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Proud Car Seat Technician
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Join Date: Apr 2008
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Fear. I'm terrified of trying again.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Oct 2008
Location: British Columbia, Canada
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I'm doing surprisingly well. I thought last week was going to be much harder than it was (mothers day and my due date were in the same week). I feel good.
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Kimberly, wife to Jamie
Miscarriage at 10 weeks - February 14, 2009
Miscarriage of twin boys at 11 weeks - September 21, 2009 Chemical pregnancy - January 9, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - April 21, 2010 Miscarriage at 7 weeks - October 22, 2010 Miscarriage at 10 weeks - May 14, 2011 Miscarriage at 17 weeks - December 7, 2011 (My sweet little Joshua had Achondrogenesis type 2)
Miscarriage at 5 weeks - June 5, 2013
All test results normal. Reason for RPL unknown.
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I may bend, but not break
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Wisconsin
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Happy Song
Recovered!
I have Scouts Angelversary Monday and I miss him/her but the silver lining of my losses being so close together was that I could not have physically had them all as live babies so there isn't a since of loss long term.
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I was much more recovered until we started ttc that's for sure.
4 of mine were back to back...but all of my 8w+ losses were not followed with a loss for well over the time it would have taken to get to term. My boys would have been 2 before Mattie was conceived and mel and dee would have been due 2m bedore matties. 2nd birthday. Yikes.... would have had 5 kids under 5 with two sets of identicals!!!!
My place now is mostly because I don't know how many more I can add to my list before dh cuts me off and says we are done. One of my biggest fears in life is never having a child of my own.
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If Only. If Only <3
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: In the Wild and Wonderful
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I was doing good. But with Onyx's 1st angelversary coming up in less than a month and Hoy saying no more kids all in a short time has me torn inside. I was late this month. So I took a pg test and it ended up being an evap. And after that scare (trying to avoid big time doing everything short of hormonal bc) he said no more. He wanted me to get a mirena. He doesn't want anything permanent because he is afraid that something will happen to him and I will move on and want a family. But to be honest I would rather make it permanent. It's like being Diabetic and wanting that piece of chocolate cake in front of you. Until you pour pepper on it and throw it in the trash you will always want it. I'm thankful for my Diva but I just feel like with so many pregnancies that I should have at least one more.
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Me 26
DD A:3 Autism, Global Developmental Delays
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I may bend, but not break
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Wisconsin
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*hugs*
I almost got mad at what Hoy said.. then I realized I was reading it wrong. That is one of the main reasons DH is getting the fix not me... I'm only 28, he works a dangerous job and isn't well... I don't want to cut my bearing short.
But you do what's right for you. *hugs* *hugs**hugs*
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If Only. If Only <3
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Join Date: Apr 2008
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Well we have been mulling over something for a while. But I never thought that he would be ok with it. But he was. You'll have to check out facebook. 
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Me 26
DD A:3 Autism, Global Developmental Delays
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I may bend, but not break
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Wisconsin
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LOL I saw... I almost questioned it. But decided not to. LOL
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If Only. If Only <3
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Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: In the Wild and Wonderful
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Well we have talked about it before. But when I pulled out all the baby clothes and started going through them HE brought it up. I about fell over. We got info from an agency in our area and they told us that as long as it is a WV child then the homestudy fee is waived. So he said that if I wanted to then lets go for it. It really shocked the crap out of me.
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Super Hockey Mom
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Location: Canada
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I am coping and moving ahead. I will never get over the pain of my losses and knowing we can't try again. I just put a smile on my face and pretend all is okay because everyone expects me to be okay but I don't think I will ever be okay or truly happy again.
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Mega Super Mommy
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Join Date: Mar 2010
Location: Illinois
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I am healed, altho I still find myself jealous of those that really aren't deserving.
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Thank you Bokkechick
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impatiently waiting
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Join Date: Aug 2008
Location: west, but east. south, but not north.
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I'm in a rough place right now.
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My Blog
2006-2013 6+ years of NTNP, TTC, TTCMA, Losses, Surgeries, and Diagnoses.
RPL and Genetic Tests came back 100% normal | Endo, PCOS, severe MFI
Multiple early losses between 3 and 8 weeks.
stuck forever in endless limbo.
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Proud Car Seat Technician
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*hugs* ladies!
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Mom to twins + 1
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Carmel, CA
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(((((hugs)))))
I thought I was moving on, but I realize I've just been too busy and overwhelmed to think about my losses. It hit me the other day on Facebook when I was tagged on Astrid's beautiful word collage about pregnancy loss. You all know how wordy I usually am  , but I couldn't comment on it. I couldn't even click 'like'. I can't look at it or think about it without feeling a desperate, panicky fear and tears welling up. All I know is that my feelings of loss are still present, just barely under the surface.
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Me: Lisa, Mommy to twins +1
8/5/08 Beautiful twin girls Leigh and Lucy born after 4-year struggle with RPL & 6 losses
12/10/09 Surprise! Baby #3 is on the way, EDD 6/22/10
12/29/09 2nd ultrasound - joining team blue
6/16/10 Baby Ben is born!
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Proud Car Seat Technician
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Join Date: Apr 2008
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 I'm sorry tagging you brought that up. 
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Mom to twins + 1
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Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: Carmel, CA
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No Augie, don't be sorry, it's beautiful & I love it! It also made me realize I have feelings to deal with. That's a good thing.
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Me: Lisa, Mommy to twins +1
8/5/08 Beautiful twin girls Leigh and Lucy born after 4-year struggle with RPL & 6 losses
12/10/09 Surprise! Baby #3 is on the way, EDD 6/22/10
12/29/09 2nd ultrasound - joining team blue
6/16/10 Baby Ben is born!
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Veteran
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Join Date: May 2010
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2nd m/c, D&C two days ago. Husband and I are at each other's throats. Because I'm edgy and less tolerant, and he has no use for me when I'm less tolerant. It's been a crappy day.
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I may bend, but not break
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Wisconsin
Posts: 23,752
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*hugs* everyone.
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