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May 19th, 2012, 01:03 PM
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Just curious where everyone is standing?

90% of the time I'm fine... but I do find if I have to open up to someone... it's like running a heated blade through my stomach.
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May 19th, 2012, 08:57 PM
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Recovered!

I have Scouts Angelversary Monday and I miss him/her but the silver lining of my losses being so close together was that I could not have physically had them all as live babies so there isn't a since of loss long term.
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May 20th, 2012, 06:42 AM
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May 20th, 2012, 07:53 AM
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I'm doing surprisingly well. I thought last week was going to be much harder than it was (mothers day and my due date were in the same week). I feel good.
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Miscarriage at 10 weeks - April 21, 2010
Miscarriage at 7 weeks - October 22, 2010
Miscarriage at 10 weeks - May 14, 2011
Miscarriage at 17 weeks - December 7, 2011 (My sweet little Joshua had Achondrogenesis type 2)
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May 20th, 2012, 10:20 AM
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Quote:
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Recovered!

I have Scouts Angelversary Monday and I miss him/her but the silver lining of my losses being so close together was that I could not have physically had them all as live babies so there isn't a since of loss long term.
I was much more recovered until we started ttc that's for sure.

4 of mine were back to back...but all of my 8w+ losses were not followed with a loss for well over the time it would have taken to get to term. My boys would have been 2 before Mattie was conceived and mel and dee would have been due 2m bedore matties. 2nd birthday. Yikes.... would have had 5 kids under 5 with two sets of identicals!!!!

My place now is mostly because I don't know how many more I can add to my list before dh cuts me off and says we are done. One of my biggest fears in life is never having a child of my own.
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May 22nd, 2012, 06:55 PM
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I was doing good. But with Onyx's 1st angelversary coming up in less than a month and Hoy saying no more kids all in a short time has me torn inside. I was late this month. So I took a pg test and it ended up being an evap. And after that scare (trying to avoid big time doing everything short of hormonal bc) he said no more. He wanted me to get a mirena. He doesn't want anything permanent because he is afraid that something will happen to him and I will move on and want a family. But to be honest I would rather make it permanent. It's like being Diabetic and wanting that piece of chocolate cake in front of you. Until you pour pepper on it and throw it in the trash you will always want it. I'm thankful for my Diva but I just feel like with so many pregnancies that I should have at least one more.
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May 22nd, 2012, 08:46 PM
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*hugs*

I almost got mad at what Hoy said.. then I realized I was reading it wrong. That is one of the main reasons DH is getting the fix not me... I'm only 28, he works a dangerous job and isn't well... I don't want to cut my bearing short.

But you do what's right for you. *hugs* *hugs**hugs*
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Me: Hashi's, PCOS, Insulin resistant, Adenomyosis and Polyps.
175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
Colposcopy = CIN1+CIN2 cells
D&C/Hysterscopy/Polypectomy - August 21st - Follow up Sept 4
Him: MFI low count, low morphology, low motillity
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May 24th, 2012, 08:37 AM
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Well we have been mulling over something for a while. But I never thought that he would be ok with it. But he was. You'll have to check out facebook.
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May 24th, 2012, 06:14 PM
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LOL I saw... I almost questioned it. But decided not to. LOL
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Me: Hashi's, PCOS, Insulin resistant, Adenomyosis and Polyps.
175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
Colposcopy = CIN1+CIN2 cells
D&C/Hysterscopy/Polypectomy - August 21st - Follow up Sept 4
Him: MFI low count, low morphology, low motillity
Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
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May 24th, 2012, 06:19 PM
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Well we have talked about it before. But when I pulled out all the baby clothes and started going through them HE brought it up. I about fell over. We got info from an agency in our area and they told us that as long as it is a WV child then the homestudy fee is waived. So he said that if I wanted to then lets go for it. It really shocked the crap out of me.
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June 1st, 2012, 07:09 AM
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I am coping and moving ahead. I will never get over the pain of my losses and knowing we can't try again. I just put a smile on my face and pretend all is okay because everyone expects me to be okay but I don't think I will ever be okay or truly happy again.
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June 1st, 2012, 07:52 AM
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I am healed, altho I still find myself jealous of those that really aren't deserving.
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June 1st, 2012, 11:27 AM
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I'm in a rough place right now.
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June 1st, 2012, 12:48 PM
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*hugs* ladies!
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June 7th, 2012, 09:43 PM
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(((((hugs)))))

I thought I was moving on, but I realize I've just been too busy and overwhelmed to think about my losses. It hit me the other day on Facebook when I was tagged on Astrid's beautiful word collage about pregnancy loss. You all know how wordy I usually am , but I couldn't comment on it. I couldn't even click 'like'. I can't look at it or think about it without feeling a desperate, panicky fear and tears welling up. All I know is that my feelings of loss are still present, just barely under the surface.
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June 8th, 2012, 05:43 AM
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I'm sorry tagging you brought that up.
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June 8th, 2012, 08:55 AM
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No Augie, don't be sorry, it's beautiful & I love it! It also made me realize I have feelings to deal with. That's a good thing.
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June 8th, 2012, 06:38 PM
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2nd m/c, D&C two days ago. Husband and I are at each other's throats. Because I'm edgy and less tolerant, and he has no use for me when I'm less tolerant. It's been a crappy day.
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June 9th, 2012, 08:06 PM
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*hugs* everyone.
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Matthew&Mark 08/24/2005 9w1d, Mattie Anne 04/07/2008 8w Mel&Dee 01/19/2010 (8 weeks) and 5 chemical pregnancies
Hope 07/22/2012@4w1d, Konnor 11/24/2012@3w6d,"Emmy"1/15/2013@ 3w6d, Ronen 02/10/2013@3w5d, Joy 07/19/2013@3w6d, "Pea" 09/06/2013@ 3w3d

Me: Hashi's, PCOS, Insulin resistant, Adenomyosis and Polyps.
175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
Colposcopy = CIN1+CIN2 cells
D&C/Hysterscopy/Polypectomy - August 21st - Follow up Sept 4
Him: MFI low count, low morphology, low motillity
Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
Weight loss goal #1 - 10% body weight 23.4lbs - accomplished July 13 2014
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