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July 19th, 2006, 11:07 PM
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Just wanted you to know I am praying that what was found on your neck is nothing to be of great concern. If it's not too personal, I would love to know how your dr. appt went and if you're ok?
p.s. I am so proud of you for taking care of you on haley's dd...the roses sound beautiful as does the ring!
Many hugs to you.
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July 20th, 2006, 08:49 PM
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Nicole - I was also thinking about you & wondering if they've been able to tell you anything yet. I am praying for you too!
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July 21st, 2006, 12:14 AM
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Norina & Beckie, you are both so sweet to be thinking of me.. I'm sorry I didn't get the chance to reply sooner, but I've just been really swamped.. I actually haven't gone to the doctor for my cyst or whatever it is yet.. I'm kind of struggling financially as well as emotionally.. I just don't feel like I can have another thing to deal with right now, you know?? So my doc appointment was my follow-up u/s.. And it is rather bittersweet that they are officially gone. I'm glad I won't be needing a d&c to remove anything that was left from the natural m/c.. But really sad to know that my angels aren't still with me.. For whatever reason, I actually still feel pg. And I'm finding it really hard to let go. I actually got the one good u/s pic of the twins, and I'm not sure if that's making it better or worse.

I think that's part of the reason I haven't been as active as I was initially.. I'm finding it hard to fit in.. I think I'm kind of in this wierd in-between spot where I'm completely numb and kind of oblivious to the fact that I've lost my babies.. I don't know if that makes any sense.. I'm just in such a weird spot..

But again, thank you for thinking of me.. I'll try to be posting more. And I should be getting to the doctor soon about the cyst, as it does seem to have gotten a bit bigger & I'm still having a hard time turning my head.
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July 21st, 2006, 07:52 AM
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Nicole, thanks for updating us. You absolutely belong here. We've all been in the weird numb state after losses. I think that's how our minds protect our hearts at first while our bodies heal. I remember posting about numbness after my second loss. It lasted about 2 weeks and then the emotions started flowing.

We're here for you whatever you're going through and I bet you'll find several others who have been there, too.
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July 21st, 2006, 08:59 AM
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Nicole- I am happy to hear from you and know you are ok. However, I am sad to hear you are feeling so bad right now both physically (your neck) and emotionally but as iris said this is compeltely normal. You do belong here...I wish you didn't have this heartache so you didin't....
You will continue to be in my heart. Take your time and process and post only as much as YOU need and want to.
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July 22nd, 2006, 10:49 AM
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I think I'm kind of in this wierd in-between spot where I'm completely numb and kind of oblivious to the fact that I've lost my babies.. I don't know if that makes any sense..[/b]
It makes perfect sense, and like 4iris said, I think most of us have been there, or are still in it. I've had a weird feeling that one the one hand, I've done better emotionally after the 2nd loss than the 1st, but on the other hand, it really is a more profound sense of loss after the 2nd (I think Beck said that somewhere, and it really made sense to me), and in some ways I haven't even scratched the suface of how I'm feeling, and it's been a month and a half. All in all, it's a weird experience no matter what, and I hope you'll continue to post at whatever level you feel comfortable.
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July 22nd, 2006, 04:18 PM
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Whatever you feel is fine - we all experience things slightly differently - and no matter what - you are entitled to feel it. If it takes a while before you feel like you can post regularly - I am the last one to judge it - shoot I didn't post for months hardly after my 2nd loss - I just didn't have it in me. I think in hindsight - I could have used the support - but that is a long complicated story. But - you do what works for you. The only person that deserves to be on hte top of your list is YOU. Do what helps you to heal. I send you all kinds of love & hope you can get in to see a Dr soon abotu your neck - that is a bit worrisome to me - so I can ony imagine it's causing you some distress as well. (((hugs)))
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My mom is a neverending song in my heart of comfort, happiness, and being. I may sometimes forget the words but I always remember the tune. ~Graycie Harmon
Don't wait to make your son a great man - make him a great boy. ~Author Unknown
You don't raise heroes, you raise sons. And if you treat them like sons, they'll turn out to be heroes, even if it's just in your own eyes. ~Walter M. Schirra, Sr.
A man loves his sweetheart the most, his wife the best, but his mother the longest. ~Irish Proverb
Mother's love is peace. It need not be acquired, it need not be deserved. ~Erich Fromm
Children need love, especially when they do not deserve it. - Harold Hulbert
Mother is the name for God in the lips and hearts of little children. ~William Makepeace Thackeray
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