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September 11th, 2012, 02:53 PM
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You know how I like to say that I prefer this board slow. Well I am unhappy to say that we lost our baby. I went in for a routine OB appointment and they couldn't find baby's heartbeat. They did an in office U/S and could not do a diagnosis. I was sent in for a U/S at the hospital. Baby was supposed to be 18 weeks today and measured 16 weeks. Baby was still and all curled up. I asked for a picture and got one. She was unable too see gender. I have a follow up appointment tomorrow where we will determine the next step...

Update 9/13

Right now I am am at home relaxing. Yesterday i went in and talked to my doctor and after all he said and the fact that my DH is new on his job I opted for the quick method. I am hoping there are no long term consequences. But any ways yesterday the Doctor placed a piece of seaweed (Laminaria) into my cervix. He said the cervix was favorable and it was in 24 hours and I didn't feel anything in the way of cramping or anything. When it was removed it was were it was supposed to be and did what it was supposed to do.

Next step was getting Cytotec, which has me worried. But today every three hours I take a 1/4 of a pill and place 1/4 in my vagina. Which is not so easy as they make it seem in L&D or the office. Once the cramping starts or my water breaks I am supposed to present myself at L&D. The doctor's guess was 12 to 24 hours after starting the pills.

As for the baby we don't know baby's gender yet. However we will be bringing baby home with us and burying baby on our 20 acres under the Oak tree with the other babies I miscarried.

Updated 9/14/2012

Our son, Seth Joesph was stillborn 9/13/2012.Thank you for your thoughts and prayers for our family.
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September 11th, 2012, 02:55 PM
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omg... Oh Nicole! I'm so sorry!!

Please keep us posted, and know that even though the board is quiet, I do check in multiple times a day if you need me!
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September 11th, 2012, 03:08 PM
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September 11th, 2012, 03:38 PM
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September 11th, 2012, 03:59 PM
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September 11th, 2012, 04:43 PM
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So so sorry Nicole! (((BIG HUGS))) You know where to find me if you need to talk. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!
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September 12th, 2012, 05:36 AM
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September 12th, 2012, 11:14 AM
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September 12th, 2012, 01:28 PM
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September 13th, 2012, 05:33 PM
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I just want to tell you again how very sorry I am. I cannot imagine how hard this must be for you. Please know that I am thinking about you and hoping for whatever can bring you some peace and comfort.
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September 13th, 2012, 06:25 PM
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aww girlie. *hugs* I hope that the process goes quickly and smoothly for you. I'm glad you plan on bringing your angel home and laying him or her to rest.
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