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September 20th, 2012, 12:11 PM
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that we don't sit and think of the game plan for what to do after the next miscarriage? Cause really I'd driving myself bonkers up here over it and I'm wondering if I'm alone in these thoughts.

We tried for over 6m with no luck. I irregularly took vitex (in fertilitea) for one cycle and we got pregnant and had a chemical. I didn't take vitex for the next two cycles, and nothing. I've been taking it daily from CD 3.

But now I find myself planning for a miscarriage rather than a pregnancy. I've already researched the hell out of egg quality issues and rpl, I've researched more supplements I can take etc... cause at this point I've convinced myself it has to be ME and not DH as originally assumed.

I'm not going crazy am I?
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September 20th, 2012, 03:27 PM
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We just keep going forward making plans and hoping and praying for a real live baby. Believe me when it happens it will be so worth every heart break. I promise.. well and then they turn two... but they are worth it again after they are four.
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September 20th, 2012, 09:01 PM
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The process can drive any person nuts.



Will you ever have testing done to see if there is something going on with you?
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September 20th, 2012, 11:46 PM
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If we could afford it it would be done already. I have an interview tomorrow, the job has great benefits, I'm crossing everything in hopes that they'll hire me.

I've had some testing done in the past, nothing ever turned up.
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Me: Hashi's, PCOS, Insulin resistant, Multiple miscarriages
175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
Colposcopy = CIN1+CIN2 cells Polypectomy - August 21st
Him: MFI low count, low morphology, low motillity
Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
Trying a few cycles of clomid and progesterone. FX this is all it takes.
Clomid cd3-7 ~ Testing 10/5/14
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September 21st, 2012, 08:04 AM
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Good luck with the interview. Most places don't offer benefits right away :/

I still owe almost $2,000 for all of my testing, it's so expensive
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September 21st, 2012, 12:02 PM
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Oh I know, even in Canada your external benefits (what pays for your Rx's and dentists) takes 3-5m to start depending on your employer.

I still owe $5000 for my kidney stone, but to be honest, that's going to be my last worry at the moment. Course they wouldn't come up with a decent payment plan with me either, so that's their own faults. A woman in the US unable to work can't really pull $300 out of her butt a month.
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Me: Hashi's, PCOS, Insulin resistant, Multiple miscarriages
175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
Colposcopy = CIN1+CIN2 cells Polypectomy - August 21st
Him: MFI low count, low morphology, low motillity
Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
Trying a few cycles of clomid and progesterone. FX this is all it takes.
Clomid cd3-7 ~ Testing 10/5/14
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September 22nd, 2012, 07:19 PM
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September 24th, 2012, 07:58 PM
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i am not currently TTC but i would like another child someday. after this miscarriage, i am absolutely almost counting on losing my next pregnancy, should i be blessed with one. it's sad, but yeah, i definitely think that way too, hon. hugs, love and peace to you!!!
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