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Q about spotting 2 weeks post-m/c (cross-posted)- a little TMI


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September 24th, 2012, 05:23 PM
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aloha ladies~ first off, my deepest apologies for each and every one of you. miscarriage is a terrible fact of life, and i send you all love and endless hugs.

i am confused, and will be seeing an OB as soon as my insurance kicks back in, but i wanted to see what your opinions were. please answer, with a yes, no, or anything you think that could help.

my name is ms.jaQ, and i experienced a miscarriage (doctors believe i also miscarried a twin in my last pregnancy; it's hard to be certain, but i believe it to be true, and i went on to have my now 8-month-old son this past january) this month on the 8th. i had only found out about the pregnancy on the 7th, and being on the pill, i was shocked as all hell that it happened at all. i was terrified but elated, as the baby belonged to my very best friend, who also happens to be the love of my life. after this m/c i spent two weeks with him, and would really love to one day have his child. i wish this one had stuck, but it just wasn't meant to be, i guess. :-/ *sniffle*

anyway, trying not to make this too long, with my hypergraphic tendencies... i am a 28 year-old mother to four beautiful little ones, and my question is... after a miscarriage, have any of you ever had old brown blood with odd VERY thin, stringy texture and brown well, like, "dots" about two weeks after your loss? this was totally unexpected. i was in the middle of sex yesterday, and surprise, surprise, it got messy. my initial thought was that perhaps i was ovulating, so my cervix opened a little, and a tiny bit of blood that may have not came out during the m/c was now making its way out. any experience, or would you agree or disagree that this is the most likely theory? so, this was yesterday at 3:30 pm. since then, it's continued VERY lightly and sporadically. my mom, who has had several miscarriages, said that it hadn't happened to her (that she could recall-- it's been over 20 years, after all), and suggested it was a period. well, it sure doesn't seem anywhere NEAR heavy enough for that, IMO. and the timing is off.

any replies would be SO greatly appreciated, girls. hugs, love, and peace.

TMI TMI TMI, but nothing we've never discussed, i imagine. :-P ....

since the sex, nothing has really came out... a slight amount of brown/pink stains. so, i guess maybe it was just dislodged because of the intercourse?? also TMI, but my guy is very well hung, to the point that it can get painful with the wrong angle, and well, it goes deep, if that makes a difference....

danke vielmals, in adance!! please respond, either way!!! i'm so confused, and want to know whether i am alone or not!
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nicholas michael, january 31, 2010, 5:12pm, 5 lb. 11 oz., 18.25"- 37.1 wks
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September 24th, 2012, 08:18 PM
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Sounds like old blood making its way out.

Sorry for your loss.
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September 24th, 2012, 08:25 PM
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sounds like old blood. I've spotted through a full cycle in the past with losses.
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September 24th, 2012, 08:46 PM
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thank you so much, girls. i have mixed feelings now, thinking that i could possibly have just gotten pregnant this weekend, though, if i'm indeed ovulating (makes sense, m/c was 9/8, and this comes 16-17 days later, and i have a longer-than-28-day cycle, and we had a pull-out accident yesterday...). i'm already getting some really rude responses from family, and people on jm, for having too many kids and drama in my life. like miscarrying isn't devastating enough, some people think it's acceptable to kick a girl when she's down. why does it have to be so taboo??! all i want is to be able to talk about it, and get hugs and whatnot, and instead i'm sitting here alone, crying, feeling like nobody wants to hear about it.

thanks so much for the love and opinions, and i'm also very sorry for your losses, ladies. so much love, hugs, and PEACE!!! maybe i'll stick around here a bit. i'm hurting so much, even though it was a surprise pregnancy and i wasn't ready for another. one always wants what she can't have, i guess. i was so terrified when i got my BFP, but now that it's gone, it's so painful, and i know you all know.

all around. xox
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msjaQ- 28, pantheist AP detroit mama to:
timothy michael, august 31, 2003, 12:02pm, 8 lb. 4 oz., 21"- 38 wks.
melissa may, april 7, 2006, 1:31pm, 7 lb. 10.5 oz., 19.5"- 36.5 wks
nicholas michael, january 31, 2010, 5:12pm, 5 lb. 11 oz., 18.25"- 37.1 wks
damon michael, january 21, 2012, 1:31am, 6 lb. 14 oz., 20", 38 wks
rainbow baby left me at 6-1/2 weeks on 09.08.12~ never forgotten, sweet child



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