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December 21st, 2012, 11:07 AM
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Obviously the world didn't end today.. so yay! Then I realized I had to come up with a question.


If you could spend one day with your lost babies, but doing so would mean you would never ever see them again (not even in the afterlife) would you do it?
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December 21st, 2012, 12:14 PM
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December 22nd, 2012, 02:10 PM
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lol I so thought you were going to ask what we would do for a whole day! That was easy take pictures.

Since I do believe in the after life then I would have to pass and wait for the big reunion in heaven.
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December 22nd, 2012, 07:35 PM
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My biggest fear in life, is that there is nothing after death. We talk about heaven and what not... but we aren't religious so I don't have the same undying faith that there IS something.

But even that said, I don't know if I'd take that day with them or not.. because I'd rather have no days with them ever than to risk there being an afterlife and I never get them again.

Does that make sense?
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December 22nd, 2012, 08:13 PM
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My biggest fear in life, is that there is nothing after death. We talk about heaven and what not... but we aren't religious so I don't have the same undying faith that there IS something.

But even that said, I don't know if I'd take that day with them or not.. because I'd rather have no days with them ever than to risk there being an afterlife and I never get them again.

Does that make sense?
Yes. You worded that perfectly.

You could have that one day, but what if! What if there is an after life, then you would have an eternity.
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December 22nd, 2012, 09:41 PM
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Yes. You worded that perfectly.

You could have that one day, but what if! What if there is an after life, then you would have an eternity.
exactly.

I know some would trade it for just one day... but I don't think I could. I'd rather all or nothing.
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December 27th, 2012, 05:31 PM
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While I would give almost anything to hold my babies for a day I don't know if I would ever risk losing them if there is an afterlife.
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