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February 26th, 2013, 09:09 PM
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4 of our members received a positive pregnancy test, giving them estimated due dates in October. Pretty much within 10 days of each other I believe.

All 4 of us have had miscarriages, giving us angelversaries in February, and EDD's in October.

Part of me cannot wrap my head around it. We have had bfp booms before, but never in my memory (Or Augie's) have we ever had everyone who got a bfp have a miscarriage... it just seems statistically out there.

I think we need some extra love and hugs on this board... and some freaking sticky dust!
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February 27th, 2013, 05:22 AM
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I agree. This sucks!
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February 27th, 2013, 07:43 AM
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this ******* blows. I've been lurking around for a lot of years and never seen it like this.
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February 27th, 2013, 07:47 AM
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I am still so angry because of this.
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February 27th, 2013, 10:39 AM
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I mean... I can pretty much nail down why I'm having losses... and as much as it freaking sucks because back home and on my meds it wouldn't be an issue.. I can accept it, this is the life I chose, and we are mostly broke.

But why Augie? She did everything right (though her doctor needs a kick in the head)

Why Rachel? She did everything right!

Why Jen? Oh.. don't get me started on your doctors.

It's just not freaking fair. What is so wrong with us that we cannot have babies easily? What have we done so wrong in life that this crap has to fall on our shoulders again and again?

My alcoholic pot head friends seem to have no issues getting or staying pregnant. Then they neglect their kids because they interfere with their social life. The closest thing I have to a social life is talking to Augie on Facebook.. I'm happy to give up a bit of that for some kids, I can always pick up a phone and talk to her!
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Me: Hashimoto's Thyroiditis, PCOS, Insulin resistant
175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
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Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015
Attempting vitamins for remainder of 2014
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February 27th, 2013, 11:23 AM
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I'm so sorry. It is so incredibly unfair. There is no way to make sense of why people who don't even take care of their kids (or themselves) are blessed with multiple healthy children and other women who would be wonderful mothers go through such pain.
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March 2nd, 2013, 08:46 PM
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Nicole I forgot her screen name and I both lost our last pregnancies in the second trimester. She was expecting twin girls. But seriously this boom bust sucks!
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