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March 18th, 2013, 05:42 PM
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and due 3w after Konnor's edd... lovely.

So not only is she having an unplanned pregnancy. But she's going to get the August baby we should have been having.

*sigh*

Life isn't fair.
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March 19th, 2013, 09:01 AM
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I'm so sorry. It's just not fair.

My SO's BFF is getting their July baby (edd month from my 2 mc). His other BFF had their baby last year on edd month of my 1 mc.

It feels a bit personal right!! But it's not, and I know you know that. Hang in there. Your support is right here. (Hugs)
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March 19th, 2013, 11:39 AM
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I think it would be different if we got along with his sisters, but we don't.
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175mcg Synthyroid, 1500mg Metformin
Colposcopy = CIN1+CIN2 cells
D&C/Hysterscopy/Polypectomy - August 21st - Follow up Sept 4
Him: MFI low count, low morphology, low motillity
Seeing MFI specialist/RE in 2015. Vitamins started August 2nd
Weight loss goal #1 - 10% body weight 23.4lbs - accomplished July 13 2014
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March 19th, 2013, 02:42 PM
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March 20th, 2013, 08:24 AM
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In the same boat. SIL is due 2 days before we were. She's a teacher and quote unquote loves kids, but if one cries, pukes or poops she is not only running in the opposite direction in disgust, she gets mad and yells at the kid and parent. Yep, her mother will be raising her kid so she can go out to the bars with her friends.

Just another kick in the gut.
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March 20th, 2013, 05:16 PM
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Ugh. I'm sorry. I too am in the same boat- my SIL is due within a week of my (second loss) EDD in Sept. She doesn't know about my miscarriages, or that I was ever pregnant. My brother knows- he and I are really close, my SIL and I not really (no bad blood, just lack of proximity- she's also from another country originally). Once I found out they were expecting, I did tell my bro what happened to me, but told him not to tell his wife. I don't want to stress her out.

Anyway. Enough about me. Sending hugs.
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March 22nd, 2013, 06:54 AM
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Know how that feels. We've been trying for 4 years and my coworker is due the same day as I was. She eats like crap and got pregnant on purpose. Im about to have my miscarriage. Not fair.
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March 24th, 2013, 10:18 PM
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These situations are so hard.
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March 28th, 2013, 09:38 AM
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