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August 10th, 2006, 03:07 PM
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...is that my heart and soul are stronger than I'd ever given them credit for.





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August 10th, 2006, 04:17 PM
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Okay now I'm really bummed out. My dr. just called and told me that my missed miscarriage a couple of weeks ago (had d&c) pathology came back normal/genetic came back normal. She also said that it was a girl. I am so sad right now.


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August 10th, 2006, 07:24 PM
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That I am able to comfort and love myself through anything ....
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August 11th, 2006, 03:44 PM
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That some people's compassion will really suprise you.
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August 12th, 2006, 05:46 AM
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I have learned to appreciate the people around me more and not take them for granted. I used to just assume I could just have babies, no problem, but took that for granted and it was taken away from me. I don't want that to happen with my loved ones.
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I have learned that my love for my dh and dd can get me through anything......and never to look at that u/s screen until the doc says it is ok to look.
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I have also learned that my losses have made me who I am and I wouldn't change that for anything.
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October 21st, 2008, 06:42 PM
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Ok I jsut read what I wrote 2 years ago and wow...how time has changed things. I surprised myself with that one! It's a good reminder, even today...to love myself and comfort myself through it all...because I am not alone. God is with me. Always.
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October 22nd, 2008, 10:16 AM
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I learned that no matter how much you want something, it's not going to happen until it's time.
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I have learned that if I just keep putting one foot in front of the other, I can make it through anything. And that I need to let my feelings out - if I feel sad, I need to NOT ignore it. I can have a brave face for the world, but sometimes, I just have to wallow and have my pity party.
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I have learned that it doesn’t matter how hard I try I can’t solve this medical puzzle, and I have learned to be patient and to have hope. I am not religious person but I think I am becoming spiritual one.
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I've learned that my SO will handle things VERY differently than I do. It doesn't mean he loves our children any less.
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