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August 13th, 2006, 04:33 PM
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I guess I need more info hun....have you been regular since your loss? Did the sore bb's go away & then come back? When did you take a HPT last? I really don't knwo what to tell you - since I don't know whether these symptoms are uncommon or just a late af. I have had confusing af's at times - I HATE that.
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August 13th, 2006, 08:22 PM
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I would take a hpt if you haven't already or take one again if you got a bfn a few days ago. I had to take a 2nd hpt to get a bfp on my past two pgs.
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August 14th, 2006, 02:19 AM
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So it sounds like you've had 2 Af's since you lost Jude and both were about on time? If I'm understanding that correctly then I would suggest taking another POAS. Look at it directly under the light to see if there's even a hint of a secnd line when it comes time to reading it.
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August 14th, 2006, 03:53 PM
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Don't feel bad. It's not weird at all. I get way more crampy now than I used too, and my cycles have gone from 24 days to more like 30-35, and a few have been all over the place (22 days was the shortest). For awhile I thought my body was totally messed up, and then I think I mostly made my peace with it, that things had just changed and unfortunately this was normal for me now. It's okay to get worried. We're all here for you whenever you need to talk.
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August 14th, 2006, 07:54 PM
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Hun - don't feel silly. Stress can delay O which will delay onset of af. Plus - with all the hormone changes that happen in a mc...things can get goofy. I have had my moments when I wondered..and then af showed - I bet we ALL have. I have to avoid caffeine or I get sore bb's EVERY month. It is really hard to handle the regular "woman" stuff after a loss because in reality we all want to be pg still...and so even when we are delaying & preventing - I think there is a certain amount of internal battle going on to fight that urge to want that joy back...to be pg again - to have hope - to look forward. I don't find it odd at all - in fact I think it is more than normal - it's practically a pre-requisite (sp?).
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