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September 13th, 2006, 04:07 PM
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Paula,
I wanted to let you know how sorry I was to read that you had another mc. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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September 14th, 2006, 09:25 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that! We're here for you whenever you're ready.
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September 14th, 2006, 01:28 PM
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I pm'd you sweetie...I too am so very sorry. We're all here for you...anytime.
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September 16th, 2006, 11:53 PM
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Thanks so much for your messages! You have no idea how much it means to me.

You know, after so many losses I don't really tell people I am pregnant anymore. It is not that my friends are totally heartless, it is just that I don't think they understand. They keep asking me "but why???" and by now I don't know whether they mean why I had a miscarriage or why on earth did I want to get pregnant again.

So, through the whole pregnancy and miscarriage thing I live like a "double" life - at work I carry on as if nothing is going on, and I save all my tears for more private times. It is a survival strategy that has some advantages, but it also means that my babies come and go without anybody noticing.

So, thank you. It is not just that I am grateful for your support but I also know that in sharing the sadness with me you are also acknowledging the little bit of life of this baby that could have been but wasn't.

Paula
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September 17th, 2006, 11:18 AM
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Paula - I am glad you find some comfort here. I know what you mean about the double life. I too keep my pg's to myself now. It has it's good points, but it's also hard. I hope you find some amount of help in being able to talk here & share your feelings. It is so important to have someplace to express yourself. Much love sweetie & so very sorry.
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