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Cece. Please remember that there are thousands of women on JM, so while you've seen 3 stories, it is still a microscopic percentage - very rare. Unfortunately, tearing yourself up about what happened won't change it or bring Jude back, as much as I wish it could for you. I pray that each day will bring you peace.
Do not sorrow; the joy of the Lord is your strength." Neh. 8:10
I am so sorry that you have this feeling. I too was told my the u/s tech that I should give it time and have another u/s done before having a d&c and then when I saw the dr she just said, well your chances of this pregnancy developing are super slim so you can wait it out or just have the d&c. I chose like yourself to have the d&c. With all of that said, I am not saying that I wanted it to end, NO not at all, but I have experienced a 2nd trimester loss and I never never never want to go through that again. Each loss hurts equally, but as much as we both wanted our babies in our arms, God just had bigger plans for them. They know they were loved and one day we will get to hold them in our arms again. I will pray that God bring you some peace in your life and assurance that Jude knows he was and still is loved .