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January 11th, 2009, 05:49 PM
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To start TTC again. I went to the doctor on Friday and got the okay to start TTC again. I'm not sure I'm ready yet but she did say that you're more fertile after a loss so I don't want to miss out on a better chance of conceiving. I have no idea what to do. DF said it's totally up to me and what I feel comfortable with.

In other news, we went and looked at hotels this weekend and have sooooo many to choose from for the wedding. We have no idea what one we're going to choose from. We spent most of the weekend driving up and down the beaches with my mom. We were "hotel hopping." We had food and drinks at each place, checked out the hotels and even saw a few weddings in action. We're hoping to decide on a location and secure it later this week.

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January 11th, 2009, 06:21 PM
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YAY for being cleared! ANd for the "hotel hopping"
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January 11th, 2009, 06:58 PM
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Glad to hear they've given you the "okay" and just follow your heart and do what's right for you honey!
Have fun picking the hotel!
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January 11th, 2009, 09:25 PM
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Woot for the okay! And just so you know, my vote was #3 in your other thread!
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January 12th, 2009, 04:37 AM
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You could always not try... just DTD when you both feel like it, and if it happens it happens.
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January 12th, 2009, 05:14 AM
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Yes, you are most fertile in the three months following a miscarriage. If you are mentally ready to start TTC again, then go for it, if not maybe just not try, not prevent until you are.

Good luck with the wedding plans!
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January 12th, 2009, 05:20 AM
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Yay for the go ahead! I can't wait to hear more about wedding planning. I LOVE weddings.
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January 12th, 2009, 07:06 AM
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I'm so happy that you have been given the ok. You will know when you are mentally ready so take your time. I agree that NTNP may be a good way to go for now. Then you could end up being surprised by a sweet little sticky bean. I can't wait to see which hotel you pick. Definitely keep us posted on it. I love to see the pics!
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January 12th, 2009, 10:17 AM
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That's great about being cleared. Your heart will tell you when you are ready to go after it again. And YAY for teh hotel tours. Can't wait to see which one you pick.
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January 12th, 2009, 10:36 AM
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That is great news about the go ahead. It doesn't mean you need to jump in with both feet....but when you're ready at least you know you don't have any restrictions.

I love hearing wedding details. My little sister is getting married in October, and its so much fun planning a wedding. DH and I got married in Jamaica on the beach, so we never had any of the fun planning. Good luck finding a place...I can't wait to hear more about it.
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January 12th, 2009, 02:40 PM
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DF and I agreed that we're going to NTNP for a month or two and see how we're feeling. This way we get past being "really" pregnant at the wedding. I can get over not wearing the dress if it means a wonderful baby, but I don't think I can get over the idea of labor starting in the middle of saying our vows or at the reception!

I'll post pics of the final hotels soon. I think we're going to go back this weekend and meet with some people from the ones which are in the running. We're also going to consider looking around the Orlando area even though it's not on the beach. I think it would be much easier to do the planning when it's local.
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January 12th, 2009, 05:32 PM
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